Gold Pile Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 It hasn't happened to me much, but I have landed dates with much younger women with Daddy Issues. Most woman (any age) just like me because I'm kind, fit, cute and semi witty. But clearly a few had the issue. Mostly they were like any other dates. Perhaps I catered to their disposition by being somewhat more emotionally comforting to them. But otherwise all was normal in and out of the bedroom. Recently another such woman has entered my social circle. I'm doing the right things..... Emotional comfort, pretend silly sternness, asking about her future, and silly talking down to her on very rare occasion. She's eating it up, I'm surprised I didn't score this weekend. It's important in these situations for her to make a blatant first move. Nobody has been harmed, fun dates, good bedroom company. Looking to the distant future, are their women with Grandfather issues?
healing light Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 I can see where "grandfather issues" get passed down to a woman indirectly by the grandmother being mistreated, that imprinting on the mother who then goes on to attract a ****ty husband, and that now establishing a pattern with the daughter in question who also picks men who mistreat her. A generation of abuse cycling down if no subconscious work or therapy is sought to change the pattern. Not sure if that's your question or not. Otherwise, I think daddy issues can be transferred onto other male authority or family figures if the father didn't play a primary role in her life, either. So if someone was raised by grandparents or had a brother who acted like a father to a woman at a young and impressionable age, she would likely repeat those patterns in other men that she goes on to date.
Author Gold Pile Posted July 17, 2017 Author Posted July 17, 2017 The ladies I dated seemed to have had absentee fathers, but not otherwise abusive ones. If I had a sense of abuse, I like to think I'd of been less wanting of a score, and more compassionate. Minus the abuse theory, it seems you're saying that Grandfather issues are possible. I'll let ya know when I'm older.
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