Author lmw123 Posted July 10, 2017 Author Posted July 10, 2017 It was something along the lines of "I know your really busy with your new job but we got to meat up at some point. It doesn't have to be this month but at some point." he didn't get it.
stillafool Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 There didn't seem to be anything vague about what you asked. He didn't get back to you because he isn't interested to meet with you. 4
Whodatdog Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 If you are going to send a vague meet up text, expect not to be taken seriously. Its like when people say "we should have lunch sometime". They really dont mean it, and if you contact them about lunch, they will bail. If you want something, ask for it. No one wants a vague message.
Author lmw123 Posted July 13, 2017 Author Posted July 13, 2017 Do some guys think it's cute to call a girl buddy and they do it out of habbit?
Imajerk17 Posted July 13, 2017 Posted July 13, 2017 (edited) Do some guys think it's cute to call a girl buddy and they do it out of habbit? I notice that there is this thing on here, where new posters keep posting about a situation in different ways, fishing for an answer they like. To this end they even keep their question quite vague and open-ended. That seems to be what is happening here. To recap from your last thread: You sent a guy a text asking to hang out, and according to your posts on here, he didn't respond. Sounds to me that the guy you are writing about just isn't that into you. And posting a few other threads rephrasing this question won't change that. Sorry. It was something along the lines of "I know your really busy with your new job but we got to meat up at some point. It doesn't have to be this month but at some point." he didn't get it.This very text actually sounds somewhat apologetic and needy. It sounds that you already get that you aren't a priority to him and you are hoping he can find time to fit you in his schedule anyway. Edited July 13, 2017 by Imajerk17 1
Redhead14 Posted July 13, 2017 Posted July 13, 2017 I notice that there is this thing on here, where new posters keep posting about a situation in different ways, fishing for an answer they like. To this end they even keep their question quite vague and open-ended. That seems to be what is happening here. To recap from your last thread: You sent a guy a text asking to hang out, and according to your posts on here, he didn't respond. Sounds to me that the guy you are writing about just isn't that into you. And posting a few other threads rephrasing this question won't change that. Sorry. This happens often. OPs want advice that supports their decision/ideas, etc. and will keep fishing until they get that one person who does in spite of numerous pieces of advice that are contrary. I liken this to a person who goes to a bunch of doctors until they get the diagnosis they want . . . not the correct one(s). 3
Imajerk17 Posted July 13, 2017 Posted July 13, 2017 (edited) This happens often. OPs want advice that supports their decision/ideas, etc. and will keep fishing until they get that one person who does in spite of numerous pieces of advice that are contrary. I liken this to a person who goes to a bunch of doctors until they get the diagnosis they want . . . not the correct one(s). Yep. And to literally answer the question heading this thread, men do NOT miss hang-out texts from women they are actually interesting in, even if said texts are "vague" (whatever that means). Anyway what I really think is happening here is that OP is chasing a guy who clearly is not into her. When pressed as to why he didn't respond to her text he gave her the excuse that he didn't get it. (And from reading the text itself that OP sent in Post #3, I am guessing that the guy's previous excuse to her is that he is "too busy with work".) Now she is fishing through their interactions for *some* sign that he could be interested in her, even though it is obvious that he isn't. Edited July 13, 2017 by Imajerk17 2
angler_bill Posted July 14, 2017 Posted July 14, 2017 I think you should have been more direct about hanging out....to me you kinda left it open and you were ok if ya'll didn't hangout.....get to the point...
Author lmw123 Posted July 16, 2017 Author Posted July 16, 2017 I've been noticing a pattern when I text this guy. He uses exclamation points when I talk about something good at my job or if I go to the beach for the weekend. Something real simple like that's great! Is this because he's interested to hear about my life and gets excited or is there something else to it?
Author lmw123 Posted July 16, 2017 Author Posted July 16, 2017 I've been noticing a pattern when I text this guy. He uses exclamation points when I talk about something good at my job or if I go to the beach for the weekend. Something real simple like that's great! Is this because he's interested to hear about my life and gets excited or is there something else to it?
Author lmw123 Posted July 16, 2017 Author Posted July 16, 2017 I've been texting this guy. I've been noticing each time we text he gets back to me in a shorter amount of time. Is this coinicidental or is he just excited to talk to me and responding as quick as possible?
smackie9 Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 ask him.....we are not mind readers. Your guess would be as good as ours. 3
stillafool Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 It means nothing more than he was excited for you that you did something that made you happy. IDK, have you asked him?
GemmaUK Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 Maybe he's not busy when you text him. Don't read too much into texting, behaviour on a date and in a relationship is a whole lot more important. 2
Gr8fuln2020 Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 (edited) Do some guys think it's cute to call a girl buddy and they do it out of habbit? It could very well be that he thinks of you as a friend and nothing more. I don't think it would be a habit. I don't understand how the title of your thread, concerning exclamation points, has anything to do with your questions??? EDIT: Sorry, finally found a question referring to exclamation points. Edited July 16, 2017 by simpleNfit
basil67 Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 I assume all these questions are about the same guy. Has he asked you on a date? Whether or not he has asked you indicates whether or not he's interested romantically.
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