Carolebartley Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 Few days ago my relationship broken up But I can't forget him a little & always fell those moments that we passed together But after a long ignoring I decided to break the relationship so it's impossible to go back to him What can I do now? Is it a better decession to pass some tym with someone ??
kendahke Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 No. It's better, for the time being, for you to be by yourself and to completely get over your feelings for this guy. Bringing a new guy into a messy situation that being days out of a relationship naturally is is patently unfair and selfish to the clueless guy you'll latch onto. You're bored, so go do something to alleviate your boredom that doesn't include the feelings of another person. You don't need to be in a relationship right now. You need to find something worthwhile to do with your time. 1
Author Carolebartley Posted July 16, 2017 Author Posted July 16, 2017 Find something?? But what that??
ExpatInItaly Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 Find something?? But what that?? Well, what are your hobbies and interests? And no, it's not a better decision to go and find another guy to pass your time. You generally should date someone because you like the person, not because you're bored with yourself.
kendahke Posted July 16, 2017 Posted July 16, 2017 Find something?? But what that?? If you can't think of something to do, then what you need is a therapist, not another boyfriend. You are attempting to USE another human being to keep you from sitting with the naturally unpleasant feelings of a relationship that has died. That is being patently unfair and selfish. If you are that sad, then you need a therapist to talk things out with, not a guy to draw into your mess and force him to rescue you from yourself and what you're feeling.
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