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Ex's Karma doesn't feel good but I now have closure!

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My ex got his karma and I feel validated although I don't take pleasure in his pain. Tonight I saw a social media rant by my ex wherein he gripped about women never valuing his love and choosing other men over him, a "real man (his words)," who wants only to build a solid relationship with a woman. He ended his rant by declaring that he will not love women based on their potential to be good for him anymore and that he will stop looking at women who seem only to be interested in sex and not a real future.

 

He must have conveniently forgotten that during the 7 years he spent with me, I literally wrote in an email to him that he would be the last man I loved for his potential to be a good man. Virtually every complaint that he shared about women was one that I had about him while we were together and he still seems unable to own any part of his relationship issues. I had been going back and forth about calling him after maintaining NC for over a year (less three calls and texts he made to me - I answered one AM call wherein he apologized to me and ignored the others) and am truly grateful to the people on this forum for talking me out of it.

 

In the year plus of NC I have only viewed his social media twice - both times in the last week. Despite his lack of self awareness, I suspect that he now understands what it feels like to give of yourself and be hurt. I know now more than ever that things are as they should be and that I have my closure - I mean I had my closure. I should have trusted myself. I knew that I sat with myself and owned my part while also realizing that I fell for someone who would never be a good fit. I am ecstatic that LS members talked me off the NC cliff. Thank you all!

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Girl I get you! Karma got my ex too where this girl used him and led him on and treated him like shut them he came back to crying and asked me to take him back and has realized that I'm the one for him and will this shot and realized how good we were but like always he disappoints!I told him I hope he doesn't treat another girl the way that he has treated me

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