clynn Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 To the original poster.......if you're indeed still reading............my "first" boyfriend who I was with for a lot of years and was extremely well endowed (to this day he was the biggest I've had) made the ones that followed him seem small. What I realized was that the others were more like average. The first serious boyfriend I had after him was one of the smallest I was with and until I really started fooling around and actually having sex with him, I didn't think it would do much for him. But, he was incredibly talented with his hands and other things. And I didn't find sex at all unenjoyable or less pleasurable. In fact, for me, I found it even more pleasurable. Of course, that's me! You'll only know by trying and if you stop being interested or attracted to him as a result....well, not much you can do about that, unfortunately. Originally posted by A Fly onThe Wall I know that having your cervix tapped is a great feeling.. Um, not it isn't. Not at all, actually. Stay away.
Mz. Pixie Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 "He had awesome tongue stamina and was very good with his hands too. He NEVER came before me, and sometimes I would take up to 2 hours, just enjoying what he was doing to me. But, my ex always got me frustrated and seemed annoyed that I took so long. This guy, man was he patient, and I came EVERY time! Then it would be his turn and I dunno, just the angle, or the technique, or maybe the fact that I'd already orgasmed, it always felt soooooooo good inside me!!!!!!!" This is so my marriage right now! My husband now is not near as well endowed as my first husband was- but my first husband never gave me orgasms! Now I have them all the time. It's a personal preference. I like to be with a guy who I can take fully in my mouth without it going down my throat! My best two lovers I've ever had have not been huge- including a bf in college and my current husband!
kitkat826 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 About the generalizations/judgements that guys make about women, if a man doesn't like the fact that I don't have large breasts..well...to be honest we probably wouldnt be dating in the first place. In general, the "important" female body characteristics are obvious even with clothes on. You can tell more or less (padded and push up bras aside) the size of our breasts, ass, the curve of our hips and waist, the length and tonedness of our legs, etc. You basically know what you're geting into from the get-go. With guys, much more of these "pleasure giving" qualities I think are focused on the penis, which doesnt usually even make an appearance until much later. Women have their physical "sexiness" spread out in a variety of physical areas; my breasts are small but Ive got a good set of hips and nice butt. With men, much more is riding on the penis. I love a nicely toned upperbody but I can't have sex with it, and because Im not as visually stimulated as most men, most of the time Im not going to get "ready" by just looking at it, or even caressing it. That being said, the guy who Ive had the best sex with is very average size. Hes also the guy Ive liked going down on most because its easier, and I can really focus on what Im doing and enjoying it. On top of that, he never goes soft after he climaxes, so my flow is NEVER interrupted. He has an awsome body, but if he didnt have the skills to make up for his lack of size I don't think sex would be as great as all. My girlfriend, on the other hand, is dating someone who is HUGE but its just all wham bam thank you ma'am. NO fun there...
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