joseb Posted July 14, 2017 Posted July 14, 2017 (edited) I'm surprised people suggest kissing regardless if the girl is into them or not. I really think that's a bad idea. First of all, women are socialized to be nice. She could be kissing you back and want to vomit because she isn't into you but doesn't want you to feel bad. She could accept the kiss but not really reciprocate because she likes you but is uncomfortable kissing someone she just met. She could feel absolutely nothing about you whatsoever but reciprocate because F yeah KISSING. I don't think it tells you that much about someone's interest. Her body language will tell you, and if it's saying she's not that interested, for goodness sake a kiss isn't going to change that. Well, I have totally given up on "reading" women. Body language is about 51% accurate in my experience - in order words, slightly better than chance. Better than useless, but not much. I've had women with open posture, playing with their hair, touching me, laughing at everything - classic "interested" signs - turn out not be in any way interested. On the flip side, I've had women act closed off, minimal eye contact, not reciprocate any touches, etc act very very interested once kissed. I don't think anyone suggested kissing a girl if she isn't into you. I think the point is that its hard to tell if a girl is into you until you kiss her. If you wait for the "signs", chances are good you will miss a lot of opportunities. Heck, I reckon a lot of women don't even know themselves if they are into you or not until you kiss / try to kiss them... I've never had a woman kiss me back (properly) that wasn't interested at some level. Edited July 14, 2017 by joseb 2
toomanyquestions123 Posted July 18, 2017 Posted July 18, 2017 OP, first dates are always awkward. You can know the answer by going out on a second date ? what happened after ? any updates ?
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