brittkett Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 okay, so i have been together with my bf for a little overa year now, we live together, and we are both 19 years old. he recently made the descion to move in with his parents so he can go to school and be fully supported by them. that means i have to move home too, only home for me, is 3,000 miles away. he says it is only for a little while, like 6 months, until i earn some money and buy a car, and until he can conveince his parents to pay his rent so he can live with me and go school. I love him so much. we are so close, i think because we live together. but i don'nt know what to think, is this his way of getting rid of me? or is he seriously trying to better our future? i can'nt imagine sleeping alone in a bed, i would miss his smell, and how he holds me every night. what am i going to do for 6 months???? i don'nt know if i could go even a month with out crying everyday. everything reminds me of him. anyways, please help me out, i am really confused.
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 Have you asked him what is going to happen to your relationship? What was his answer? Is he expecting things to just continue, only in a LDR? Has he mentioned anything else, like needing a 'break' or anything like that? It very well could be that he has your future in mind, and in order to have a better future he has to make some sacrifices now in terms of the convenience of being close to each other.
brittkett Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 yes, i have asked him, maybe too much about what is going to happen to our relationship. he says we will still stay together, and viist, and stuff like that, im just worried, like in october, he is going to be staying with his sister in her college dorm, which means all girls...should i be worried? it will only be for like 2 days , just to see a football game, but man, i worry, this has me really stressed out, i am really scared of loosing him. i am just scared in general about my future.
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