smile Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 Ok so I have some questions that may seem kinda dumb. The guy that I was all gooey over and I have a mutual friend. She came over last night and out of the blue said "you know you can have his number if you want . he is totally single." I was stunned. I think I even blushed. Then everyone else in the room, guys, said I should call him. The thing is what do I say? Do I invite him to hang out with just me? Do I invite him to come over and hang out when everyone is here? What can I say that won't seem creepy? I guess if his friend is saying its ok to call him then she must think he would think its ok? Right? I just dont know does it creep boys out if a girl calls him? Also there is this guy I have been talking to on the computer. He is a friend of my roomates friend. We have a lot in common and have been joking about hanging out and stuff. He gave me HIS number. Accckk. I am so unsure about how to do this girl/boy dating thing. Its been too long. I dont want to be a foofy girly girl bc I am not.. but how can I be myself and NOT be the oblivious "one of the guys" I have been so long? And is it ok if I go out with both of them? Thats not jerky or anything? Wow a 3 1/2 yr relationship really can screw up a gals dating technique.
Rosalind Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 Originally posted by smile Wow a 3 1/2 yr relationship really can screw up a gals dating technique. no kidding.... Whenever a LTR ends for me, I get all confused. It's like all the rules of the mating game have changed, and no one bothered to tell me. I'm just as lost as you are. ...... Rosalind
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