travelgirl3 Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 So, I went out with a guy almost a week ago and the chemistry was amazing. Well, at least it was from my end. We watched the fireworks and went back to his place to talk. We really did just talk and he didn't really pull any moves which I'm not used to. He said he respected me/liked me and he wanted to take things slow (we did kiss though). We stayed up until about 2 a.m. just talking. I then crashed at his place and left for work in the morning. He texted me about an hour later asking if I got home alright and he hoped that I had a good time. We've now been talking pretty much every day since then. There was a day that he didn't respond but he got back to me the following day with a long text stating that he was very sorry for not responding. The thing that I'm confused about is he hasn't asked to hang out again. He just texted me good morning and that he has a busy week ahead because he has to go to Philly for work. Should I just ask him if he wants to get together after he gets back? I feel like the guy should initiate the first couple of dates though
smackie9 Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 If you are interested, ask him out or make a suggestion....it's not the 1950's you know. Men love a woman that will take the initiative. Relax and be confident. 2
d0nnivain Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 Although it's nice when the guy initiates the 1st couple of dates, when he's not stepping up to the plate you need to take action. Do suggest another meeting but make it concrete not some vague when you get back kind of thing. 1
Sara1989 Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 Hmm I usually let the guy initiate the first few dates but considering he has been in constant contact I think you should bring it up about meeting again. If he fobs you off then you got your answer. 1
lurker74 Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 I think it's ok to ask once. After that, you can pretty much guess that he's seeing someone else. And, at that point, do you really want to get a text from him in three or four weeks when they other gal is no longer in the picture? Asking for a date will either lead to a date or lead to an exit - win/win
jgraham11 Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 Some guys enjoy a woman taking the lead every now and then. Some days it's hard to be Alpha lol. Also, some guys just are a little reserved and don't want to seem like they're coming across too hard.. My advice is to try and set something up yourself. And if this were to keep happening maybe just subtly say something about it in conversation
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