WonderKid Posted July 9, 2017 Posted July 9, 2017 Well today marks the day my ex broke up with me. Long story short, we eventually came to terms on being friends and we said some words here and there. But I was almost blind to the fact of us just being friends. She was dating another guy (which was nothing new). There was a guy she had a crush on at her previous job she worked at. He's older and courts her out. She also asked what would I think about us dating again. Mind you she broke up with me twice. I was still warm enough to talk about it. But also I asked her simply, "Why do you want to be with me?" She couldn't give an answer that didn't include me benefiting her. All she could say was: I can be myself around you, I need to commit to something, You support me and don't think I am weird What was wrong with her just saying, "I miss the time we spent together..." "I still love you..." "I want to be the best woman for you..." I don't know how she got it but she has a selfish mindset. But what she did weeks later permanently detached me from her. I asked her out to a cafe on the upcoming weekend. She never replied back until 4 days later. Not only did she do that, she claimed that she just read my message because she didn't realize I sent it. That was just a load of BS. She then primed me up asking about my new job, then she hit me with it. She asked me if I could help her and her sister move. She didn't even regard the fact I asked her out, basically. I said no. She was upset. I never talked to her. Then she texted me again weeks later asking for another favor and I shot that down. Seems like she wants to be friends but want me to do BF stuff. Just seems like all she knows how to do is use guys but she claims to be so introverted and shy. Ever since then I never spoke to her. I thought I'd never get over her completely but it happened. All I can say is when your ex breaks it off with you and want to be your friend--even though the NC Guide advise against it, you'll probably still agree to being friends. But don't give them ANYTHING you would have when you were together.
Superchicken Posted July 9, 2017 Posted July 9, 2017 I don't know how she got it but she has a selfish mindset. . What ?, a women selfish ?. Oh my god. Naaaa. Surely you jest. You did the right thing.. Your a smart cookie.. Don't take any Flak. Me, I'm a ass whole.. I would have agreed, and then set a time. But never show up. Dump me, would she.. Hmm Ted. 1
Author WonderKid Posted July 10, 2017 Author Posted July 10, 2017 Lol that whole reply cracked me up man
Marc878 Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 Don't worry about her too much. She'll find another just like you were to take advantage of. Glad you finally woke up 2
Bromeo Posted July 10, 2017 Posted July 10, 2017 I'm impressed you displayed that level of maturity and class. I wouldn't have been able to. Lemme see... girl dumps me, then asks for help moving. Yeah, many scenarios leap to mind. No. 1
Superchicken Posted July 11, 2017 Posted July 11, 2017 I'm impressed you displayed that level of maturity and class. I wouldn't have been able to. Lemme see... girl dumps me, then asks for help moving. Yeah, many scenarios leap to mind. No. Oh dude, she would have given you a box of tissues so you wouldn't get her floor wet . But then, pulled out a Howitzer !... Ted.
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