Axl88 Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 Sorry if anybody finds me annoying. I just need some advice on this. I posted a long story about my girlfriend being on/off with me. Some said she was loosing her feelings for me. I excepted this and I've been doing quite well at moving on. We had no contact for a week. Tnen we had to work together. I arrived and as soon as I arrived she began chatting to me. Our job meant we had to wait until something was ready for us to do, we had an hour and a half wait. We didn't stop talking the whole time. We didn't talk about the break up though. I later called her to see how she was doing (job wise), We talked a further 30 minutes, later that night we were texting and again having a laugh. Next day I met with my best mate and we went out on a bike ride. I put a new picture of myself on facebook and within minutes she commented. We then began having a bit of a laugh with each other. Next day I stupidly commented on something she posted which lead to more banter between us. Couple of days later I was missing her so she was online so I said hello. She wanted to know all about my weekend, where did I ride too, who with, where did I have dinner. Then she said she was thinking of me on sunday because she wanted a roast dinner, which we almost did every sunday. She said it felt weird and she missed it. She then suggested we meet up for a roast and catch up. We talked until the next day and she began asking me how my day went and I suddenly just thought, I need to stop contact with her so I didn't reply. I don't think she loves me. Maybe she's trying to keep my close because she nobody else. Why is she saying this stuff, why hasn't she said anything about the breakup, why is she still chatting away to me. I felt like I was being lured into her trap again. She hasn't contacted me since I didn't reply. But she's posted a few things that I think she wanted me to see.
Redhead14 Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 Sometimes it's just about an ego trip . . . she broke up with you and she can see that you are still pining away for her. Sometimes, it's just that she's not completely letting go because of her uncertain future in being single -- not getting dates, etc. and still wants some kind of connection. Usually, in these cases, it's like training wheels. Until she gets on her feet with new dates, etc., she's got a soft place to land. Basically, an emotional tampon. Just cut her off completely. Don't look at Facebook for a while at least. She made her decision, let her start living it and owning it. 1
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