mmx Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 So I've been talking to this guy for about 3 weeks now. We met for the first time last week and just hung out. We live a couple of hours from each other. Anyways, we have been talking daily and we always texted good morning and good night to one another and texted in between during the day. He always asked questions as I asked him questions too. Made me think he was interested. We both discussed how to we don't like the modern way of dating and don't play games. However, two nights ago, we were texting and he never responded. He didn't respond the next day either. So I texted him last night just saying "hi" he responded and we chatted for a little bit. Then he stopped responding again. He has yet to respond today. What should I do?
Redhead14 Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 So I've been talking to this guy for about 3 weeks now. We met for the first time last week and just hung out. We live a couple of hours from each other. Anyways, we have been talking daily and we always texted good morning and good night to one another and texted in between during the day. He always asked questions as I asked him questions too. Made me think he was interested. We both discussed how to we don't like the modern way of dating and don't play games. However, two nights ago, we were texting and he never responded. He didn't respond the next day either. So I texted him last night just saying "hi" he responded and we chatted for a little bit. Then he stopped responding again. He has yet to respond today. What should I do? Stop reaching out to him and sit back and observe. You leave it there for as long as it takes . . . if he doesn't reach out again, so be it. When it's very early in the dating scenario, let the man lead. If you don't like the way he leads, you move on. Were you intimate with him when you met? 1
Gaeta Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 What you should do? You find yourself a nice man that lives local that can invite you on dates more than once every 3 weeks. Forget this guy, he lost interest and there is nothing you can do about it. 3
Author mmx Posted July 8, 2017 Author Posted July 8, 2017 Stop reaching out to him and sit back and observe. You leave it there for as long as it takes . . . if he doesn't reach out again, so be it. When it's very early in the dating scenario, let the man lead. If you don't like the way he leads, you move on. Were you intimate with him when you met? We were not intimate.
smackie9 Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 Why did he stop replying? Because he is no longer interested. Let it go and move on. 4
Gaeta Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 He always asked questions as I asked him questions too. Made me think he was interested. We both discussed how to we don't like the modern way of dating and don't play games. Remember when you chat with someone online it's easy to say we are interested but it doesn't count. The real test in when we meet face to face. When you finally meet all that has been said before doesn't count. Everything goes back to square one. So you met this guy last week and a few days later he stopped replying to you, that is all you need to know, he is not interested anymore. The meeting was not as good for him. You did nothing wrong. That is why you should meet men locally. You can meet them fast and not waste 2-3 weeks chatting with them not even knowing if you will like each other enough 4
Author mmx Posted July 8, 2017 Author Posted July 8, 2017 Remember when you chat with someone online it's easy to say we are interested but it doesn't count. The real test in when we meet face to face. When you finally meet all that has been said before doesn't count. Everything goes back to square one. So you met this guy last week and a few days later he stopped replying to you, that is all you need to know, he is not interested anymore. The meeting was not as good for him. You did nothing wrong. That is why you should meet men locally. You can meet them fast and not waste 2-3 weeks chatting with them not even knowing if you will like each other enough It was after we met that we had the conversation about not playing games and such. It was about a week after we met that he stopped replying.
Gaeta Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 It was after we met that we had the conversation about not playing games and such. It was about a week after we met that he stopped replying. I was told that 100s times by men and they all ended up playing games. It's just words. You met this man once, he's a stranger. You should not beleive what strangers are telling you. I said 10s and 10s of time on here when I was dating, I did not beleive one word coming out of men's mouth untill he offered me exclusivity. The 200 men I met online all told me I was an amazing woman and they wanted to date me but 20% of them really meant it and showed it with actions. 5
GeekLover Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 Stop reaching out to him and sit back and observe. You leave it there for as long as it takes . . . if he doesn't reach out again, so be it. When it's very early in the dating scenario, let the man lead. If you don't like the way he leads, you move on. Were you intimate with him when you met? I like this advice. I would sit back too and let him make some moves now. Perhaps he's just setting some boundaries? Maybe he's finding you two are talking too much and he wants to pull back a bit? Maybe he's feeling things are moving too quickly? Maybe he's having mixed feelings about what he's doing?Maybe he has lost interest? Who knows? Just wait and see what happens now.
smackie9 Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 Guys will do and say anything to get a lineup of women on line...... 1
Whodatdog Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 He's not interested in you. He's just texting as a friend. Dont read more into it than is there. He said he doesnt like the modern way of dating and doesnt play games because he doesnt, its how he is. But that isnt indicating that he wants a relationship with you, its just conversation. 1
act00 Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 He met someone locally he can see regularly, over someone who lives 2 hours away. Or he simply doesn't wish to pursue anything more with you and/or realizes distance is a major issue. Or work and life circumstances preclude pursuing long-term, serious dating, especially with someone so far away. Stay local. 3
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