mmx7979 Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 Hi people, first of all - thank you for taking your time reading my little dating story. I'm dating/or was dating this girl 3 times the last 2 weeks. We were hitting off right from the start(first date lasted 3 hours but no kissing). By the 2.date we were alrady kissing and cuttly but not too much hence we were in a restaurant and in a bar afterwards. The 3rd date was a champagne piknik in the park 2 days ago. She started kissing me right from the start in this date and we kept on doing it all along . She even texted me that she had a great time the same night. We decided to meet 3 days after (tomorrow in my case). We were texting today after work with a bit teasing aso. She texted me that she has to work (saturday) but can meet me past 5.pm. She suggested to go bowling or cinema and I made a counter suggestion with taking a drink, shopping for food and cook in my place together but mentioning that we could go to the cinema afterwards. It took her 1 hour to answer, writing me that she will be too tired to meet me tomorrow after all and that we should meet another day without being spesific. Did I came on too strong and I have lost her? Shall I ask her out again or should I just wait for her to text me? I have to admit that I tried to call her after that message and she didn't take the phone. I apologised with a sms for coming on too strong and that we could keep light tomorrow after all... I really, really like this girl. I went through so many dates in the past months and none could match with her when it comes to chemistry, personality,charm aso.
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 You ruined it with the request to come back to your place. Women interpret that as a request for sex. She already begged off tomorrow. Send her some movie times for Sunday & go to the cinema. It's a wonderful make out spot. 4
Author mmx7979 Posted July 7, 2017 Author Posted July 7, 2017 You ruined it with the request to come back to your place. Women interpret that as a request for sex. Do you think I still have a chance with her? She already begged off tomorrow. Send her some movie times for Sunday & go to the cinema. It's a wonderful make out spot. ¨ Should I ask her tonight or wait for tomorrow to ask her out for sunday? I was thinking to ask her to go for a walk on Sunday tomorrow?
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 Tonight would be fine if it's not too late. Unless you & she already have a pattern of last minute dates, a request for a Sunday date on Saturday might not be well received. She may also have plans.
smackie9 Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 Tip: when a lady has to work another day in her work week, she's going to be tired and not want to do a 5/6 hour date. Go by her suggestion next time. Bowling or a movie= 2 hours tops. And the "go to my place" suggestion, you best be putting that on the back burner.
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