Author Sallyx3 Posted July 6, 2017 Author Posted July 6, 2017 You are 21, an adult...you are responsible for your sister since she is a minor. Shame on you for not stepping in, cutting her off and taking her home. If I were your mother, YOU would be the one in big s&*^ trouble. You should be accountable for your actions, well more like lack there of. As for your BF, he has no boundaries...just think what he is like when you are not around when he gets ****tered like that. I'm sure he's has a few secrets..... And im sorry but im not responsible for anyone unless i have children. Morally yes, but as far as her doing what she does its not my responsibility to hold her in a choke hold and make sure she doesn't drink when im not present. My mother even said its not my fault since she made her own choice.
Author Sallyx3 Posted July 6, 2017 Author Posted July 6, 2017 You let your sister(19) drink, ok I can understand that. Then you already knew she was drunk, you stopped and got another bottle. Wow You will never know what was going through your BF mind at the time. But good for you looking out for her when you saw and thought what you did. Next time limit her drinks. If you have to buy smaller bottle or pour out some. I am on the side that says, old enough to dye for ones country old enough to drink. Teach her to do it responsibly. I was not getting another bottle for her.. it was for me since i didnt get to drink. My bf got the bottle for me but by the time we got home i realized to hide the bottle so no one drinks and i didnt even want to drink at that point. We all are never going to drink again because we see what alcohol does and its not very fun
Author Sallyx3 Posted July 6, 2017 Author Posted July 6, 2017 Ok. Just be careful. Alcohol impairs judgment. That is a lesson I learned the hard way. I know this. That is why i learned not to go somehwere and drink. Knowing someone has to drive. I am young and not perfect by whatsoever.
kendahke Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 I meant to say "look" but anyways i think it should be looool now from your comment Stop complaining over nothing.
smackie9 Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 And im sorry but im not responsible for anyone unless i have children. Morally yes, but as far as her doing what she does its not my responsibility to hold her in a choke hold and make sure she doesn't drink when im not present. My mother even said its not my fault since she made her own choice. Granted your sister should be responsible for her own actions BUT you and your BF were giving her alcohol...that MAKES YOU responsible. If the police had pulled you over, you both would have been charged with contributing alcohol to a minor. 3
lurker74 Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 Read this very carefully: When you get older, you will meet the man of your dreams. And when the two of you fall in love, this boyfriend will be Example A of all the dumb things you did when you were younger and didn't know what love was. Chalk him up as experience and a milepost on the broken road and move on. Oh, and buzzed driving is drunk driving. 4
Author Sallyx3 Posted July 12, 2019 Author Posted July 12, 2019 (edited) Hey everyone.. at the time I posted this, i was in denial of how abusive he was to me.. i tried to defend him. Not even with this situation, but all of the other things he has done to me. All of you were right and i have since had no contact with him.. & have been in therapy. I have been sober for a year!! He is a full blown narcissist & I finally left him. Edited July 12, 2019 by Sallyx3 3
stillafool Posted July 12, 2019 Posted July 12, 2019 That's good news because he definitely wanted to "boink" your little sister.
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