whichwayisup Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 I guess you didn't understand my post. HE asked to see me...my REPLY was "are you still married" which are of course already knew the answer. It was my round about way of telling him I'm not interested anymore because of his status. We all don't know each other here and all have different beliefs. However I have always been the strong independent type. I am sure we all have had ex's in our past. I have never blocked anyone. No need when you reach a point and move on from a relationship. Just how it is...for me And what if he had said No I'm divorced. What would you have said? Fact that you asked gave him the green light to keep 'it' alive for 'someday' if he does divorce he'll look you up. Are you wanting him if he does divorce? 1
OpenBook Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 Geez Louise I can't believe people are giving you such a hard time about this, oceans. I totally hear you, and I know all too well what you mean by regaining control of your heart. I say Well Done and I bet that felt good!!! He asked to see me tomorrow...my reply was..."are you still married?" Of course, he said yes...so I said no thanks, Life is what it is. I made a excuse that I had to go...and I hung up. Feels good to have control of my heart again. 5
Author oceansaway Posted July 8, 2017 Author Posted July 8, 2017 Geez Louise I can't believe people are giving you such a hard time about this, oceans. I totally hear you, and I know all too well what you mean by regaining control of your heart. I say Well Done and I bet that felt good!!! Thank you OpenBook. The past is the past. No hard feelings...just moved on in life and have control of my mind and heart. I suppose some here have not reached that point. I wish all well, peace and freedom within their hearts.
whichwayisup Posted July 8, 2017 Posted July 8, 2017 Thank you OpenBook. The past is the past. No hard feelings...just moved on in life and have control of my mind and heart. I suppose some here have not reached that point. I wish all well, peace and freedom within their hearts. I meant no harm by asking my question. I do think it's great that you're not into him anymore and what he does or doesn't do isn't affecting you at all anymore. 2
deadsoul Posted July 9, 2017 Posted July 9, 2017 another way to view it is she answered the call to prove to herself that no matter what he said, it didn't matter. She was done. Answering the call or not, blocking him or not, she's done. And that's a good feeling. OP, I say well done and I think your post is helpful for anyone struggling with finding the way to indifference. 6
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