Sbla22 Posted July 5, 2017 Posted July 5, 2017 I've been dating a girl I met on OLD for around 6 weeks now. We kissed on every date (now had 6 dates) but the last 2 have got slightly more intimate. We cuddled and held hands in the sofa date 5 and last night we went to the cinema. I dropped her off at midnight and she said 'do you want to come in for a bit?" Which I wasn't expecting but said yes. So after a short while we kissed a lot then we went to her bedroom. We both quickly got nearly fully naked and I pleasured her with my hands for a bit and she played with my you know what... But I then asked if she wanted me to put my you know what in her you know what and she smiled and said 'not yet" but then she kissed me lots and then we just sort of lay there cuddling but it was sweet and she said she wished I could stay over but we both had work early to get up for. She was also talking about me staying over very soon and a bit more 'relationshipy' stuff... But I'm confused why she didn't want sex last night...I don't know if it's because she'd rather wait so I can stay over after the first time with her or just wait a bit more for actual intercourse? What do you reckon?
coolheadal Posted July 5, 2017 Posted July 5, 2017 I've been dating a girl I met on OLD for around 6 weeks now. We kissed on every date (now had 6 dates) but the last 2 have got slightly more intimate. We cuddled and held hands in the sofa date 5 and last night we went to the cinema. I dropped her off at midnight and she said 'do you want to come in for a bit?" Which I wasn't expecting but said yes. So after a short while we kissed a lot then we went to her bedroom. We both quickly got nearly fully naked and I pleasured her with my hands for a bit and she played with my you know what... But I then asked if she wanted me to put my you know what in her you know what and she smiled and said 'not yet" but then she kissed me lots and then we just sort of lay there cuddling but it was sweet and she said she wished I could stay over but we both had work early to get up for. She was also talking about me staying over very soon and a bit more 'relationshipy' stuff... But I'm confused why she didn't want sex last night...I don't know if it's because she'd rather wait so I can stay over after the first time with her or just wait a bit more for actual intercourse? What do you reckon? Good lord man, why in the world did you ask her to stick you know what into her like that. You should have done what comes natural. You make it like you had to ask her permission to go that far. Now you gave her the driving seat. Your the leader your the one with the healthy ego your the confident guy, do not fall weak and become the unhealthy ego type. Next time go in there and do what you are suppose to do but work it up to the event. Never ask them you do it but you don't not force that act. She has to be welling but you never say it the way you did. You could have spend the night and go to work in from her place. Strange she didn't allow you to stay. Have you heard from her since? Lets see what damage you done to this relationship if any.. You'll know in a bit. First she has to contact you and you have to see if you can go out again and then see if you can spend the time and then see if you can have real sex with her? 1
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