thewonderyears888 Posted July 4, 2017 Posted July 4, 2017 So I was really into this girl and she seemed into me. She texted me asking if she could come over and we could hang out, so i said sure and she asked if she could stay the night i said sure. this was our second time hanging out she came over, we talked, got dinner talked more went to my bed laid down it got physical, i went down on her, got her off, then she needed to smoke a cig. we went outside talked and she said "im so stressed" i said "Why" and the she started talking about work then she says "i gotta go i cant stay, i dont wanna leave but i gotta go or i wont sleep, will you be mad?" i said "do what you gotta do" i walked her to her car,we talked a bit and she hugged me, and left its been 2 weeks havent heard from her at all texted her the day after (tuesday and wednesday) then texted her the following monday shes been active on social media sooooooo yea idk what i did but its pretty damn ****ty because i was really into her i guess she was just wanting to get off? though I dont know why she would drive 45 minutes for it
Gaeta Posted July 4, 2017 Posted July 4, 2017 Could be 101 reasons from her ex got back in the picture to she is in a relationship to she just changed her mind. Is it important which reason it is, it won't change the fact she is not interested any longer. 1
angel.eyes Posted July 4, 2017 Posted July 4, 2017 Maybe you were terrible when you went down on her. She got fed up, pretended to get off so you would stop, then cut the night short and fled. None of us know why she isn't responding. After two weeks of ignoring you though, it's clear she doesn't want to interact with you anymore. Time to find someone else. 1
smackie9 Posted July 4, 2017 Posted July 4, 2017 2 weeks and no communication is a pretty good indicator she is avoiding any further contact with you...why? who knows, only she can answer that.
OnlyHonesty Posted July 4, 2017 Posted July 4, 2017 texted her the day after (tuesday and wednesday) then texted her the following monday When someone does not have the decency to contact you, even sending one text is possibly questionable, but to send several solves nothing, and communicates desperation, neediness, and a lack of self respect (and options). After all, after some physical intimacy, she went silent. What sort of message do you think you send by initiating contact...
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