steenerz Posted August 6, 2005 Posted August 6, 2005 well he never called me back last night after he said he would the day before....i called himie once this morning and he didn't answer...and after jokingly whining about it to a friend of mine...the friend blocked his number and called the bf...and the bf answered. I'm so hurt and angry right now.
NYCmitch25 Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 I highly suggest that you stop calling him and perhaps you dont run to him the minute he return to your home town -- you are trying to way to hard, that makes you look desperate. Why are you trying to communicate with him so much miss clingy girl ?
Author steenerz Posted August 7, 2005 Author Posted August 7, 2005 Originally posted by NYCmitch25 I highly suggest that you stop calling him and perhaps you dont run to him the minute he return to your home town -- you are trying to way to hard, that makes you look desperate. Why are you trying to communicate with him so much miss clingy girl ? i tend to get extremely insecure if i don't hear from him regularly.... i KNOW KNOW KNOW i shouldn't call him, i'm embarassed when i'm actually doing it...but i do it anyway...
NYCmitch25 Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 You seem younger, are you a teenager? Anyway, I'm telling flat out, you keep it up and you will get exactly the opposite you wanted because he will leave you if you don't back down. I also see that you are creeping around in his email which to me is a big violation regardless of the circumstances. I would LOVE to see who my better half is emailing; I could easily setup a server that would just capture every email leaving the house and have a re-directed copy sent to me but I don't because it's morally wrong. Anyway, in plain english, you seem to exbit some issues here, you also don't seem to want to take any ones advice. Really, you need to back off, stop stressing over things you have little control over, and wait for him to come to you. These things you are doing aren't normal, he is going to grow tired of you controling behavior and leave you.
Author steenerz Posted August 8, 2005 Author Posted August 8, 2005 Originally posted by NYCmitch25 You seem younger, are you a teenager? Anyway, I'm telling flat out, you keep it up and you will get exactly the opposite you wanted because he will leave you if you don't back down. I also see that you are creeping around in his email which to me is a big violation regardless of the circumstances. I would LOVE to see who my better half is emailing; I could easily setup a server that would just capture every email leaving the house and have a re-directed copy sent to me but I don't because it's morally wrong. Anyway, in plain english, you seem to exbit some issues here, you also don't seem to want to take any ones advice. Really, you need to back off, stop stressing over things you have little control over, and wait for him to come to you. These things you are doing aren't normal, he is going to grow tired of you controling behavior and leave you. i'm 19...and he is my first boyfriend/real relationship...everything is so new to me, i don't know how to react to conflicts in a relationship, what is right/wrong etc etc
BeachQueen Posted August 13, 2005 Posted August 13, 2005 the friend blocked his number and called the bf...and the bf answered. It's definitely time to let him go. Do it while you're not as attached. It's much easier. Believe me.
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