Author DragonzRoost Posted July 6, 2017 Author Posted July 6, 2017 (edited) Yes he is acting similar, which makes me wonder why I keep choosing guys that act like this. I'm starting to think this is an ethnicity/culture difference..cause this race comes off cheap as hell. The last guy was a lot worse in reminding me how much they would always spend. He doesn't necessarily do this, but shows it in small ways. They seem nice at first and things quickly become ****. When telling him its not working out he says "I just haven't been thinking, why didn't you say that was the reason to eat in the car? (His roommates not finding out we stopped to eat.) My response was "I did...even said we should eat in the car and I shouldn't have to remind you about that, why not plan ahead?!" He then said "I haven't been thinking and sorry that I didn't plan. I tried offering to just give her my sandwich but, only suggested yours because it was cheap and in return I'd give you mine..given its more expensive. I didn't call you or your friends/family stupid, just that eating in the car is. I wasn't thinking, my head has been all over the place since moving. (When dating he mentioned being in the process of relocating.) I haven't even been in the mood for sex and not because of you, just worried about starting work. " I finished off saying "This really isn't working for either of us, I'm not happy and that is beyond clear. I don't want to get into detail about the breakup but, I'm starting college soon and with you being far away now I don't see this working out." After I went home he messaged with more excuses why but, I haven't responded. Edited July 6, 2017 by DragonzRoost 1
Bastile Posted July 6, 2017 Posted July 6, 2017 he has many different culture beliefs that are different from mine. Like leaving mirrors out while sleeping, causes bad luck or the devil to appear. Refering me to "you white people.." Straight up dump. Run a mile. Guy's a nutter.
Sweetfish Posted July 6, 2017 Posted July 6, 2017 Yes he is acting similar, which makes me wonder why I keep choosing guys that act like this. I'm starting to think this is an ethnicity/culture difference..cause this race comes off cheap as hell. The last guy was a lot worse in reminding me how much they would always spend. He doesn't necessarily do this, but shows it in small ways. They seem nice at first and things quickly become ****. When telling him its not working out he says "I just haven't been thinking, why didn't you say that was the reason to eat in the car? (His roommates not finding out we stopped to eat.) My response was "I did...even said we should eat in the car and I shouldn't have to remind you about that, why not plan ahead?!" He then said "I haven't been thinking and sorry that I didn't plan. I tried offering to just give her my sandwich but, only suggested yours because it was cheap and in return I'd give you mine..given its more expensive. I didn't call you or your friends/family stupid, just that eating in the car is. I wasn't thinking, my head has been all over the place since moving. (When dating he mentioned being in the process of relocating.) I haven't even been in the mood for sex and not because of you, just worried about starting work. " I finished off saying "This really isn't working for either of us, I'm not happy and that is beyond clear. I don't want to get into detail about the breakup but, I'm starting college soon and with you being far away now I don't see this working out." After I went home he messaged with more excuses why but, I haven't responded. You are part of the proof that the new generation mostly seeks out S**ty men and women. Out of the million of men out there you find one that doesn't put out and treats you like crap. You should have dumped him last week. This is not about race.. frogs and toads exist every where.. don't try to blame a race.. just leave.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 6, 2017 Posted July 6, 2017 This isn't going to last anyway, so you might as well end it now, OP. He's not boyfriend material.
Gaeta Posted July 6, 2017 Posted July 6, 2017 I'm not happy and that is beyond clear. I don't want to get into detail about the breakup but, I'm starting college soon and with you being far away now I don't see this working out." After I went home he messaged with more excuses why but, I haven't responded. Good girl ! Stay break up. Do not respond to him, block and delete him. Concentrate on yourself and your college starting soon. No one needs a bad boyfriend. 1
d0nnivain Posted July 6, 2017 Posted July 6, 2017 If he's not thinking, you need to start thinking -- about yourself. Dump him.
coolheadal Posted July 6, 2017 Posted July 6, 2017 My bf and I went out to eat some quick fast food. He wanted to go in and eat, but I asked if we could go through the drive thru. As we were driving off I asked if we were going to eat in the car. He started gawking at me as if I were crazy making that suggestion. I then said "well tons of my family and friends have done it..why not try?" He then proceeded to call me and my family/friends stupid for eating in the vehicle, making it sound like I was the only one doing this. Once we got to his place, he said "Oh..I forgot to get my female roommate something to eat. Could I give her yours?" She is pregnant so I just said "Its okay, give her my sandwich." I know this sounds stupid as hell, but he has many different culture beliefs that are different from mine. Like leaving mirrors out while sleeping, causes bad luck or the devil to appear. Refering me to "you white people.." What annoyed me about the eating, even though he suggested him going to get another one after giving mine to her, was the fact that if we had ate in the parking lot his roommates would of never known we had lunch out. Why doesn't he listen to me? Are we just incompatible? There are other things that bother me as well, like the lack of sex. I get that its not his job to be horny all the time, but there are moments where I want to be intimate. Whenever I try initiating he claims to either be tired or recharging from having sex 3 days ago. If I ever try to list my concerns about the distance of our relationship (he moved an hour away recently) he calls me negative. He starts work next week and I'm unsure of us having much time together anymore, plus I start college in Aug. What is he? What culture does he belong too. The mirrors leaving them out really and the devil to appear. I never her that before the mirror are use to open doorways to other worlds. Where did he get that other term from? I know why he gets up at night and leaves. This guy sounds rude why do you put up with him. Chaos, toxic, very rude man. Yes no sex you said. Wow.. Yes to settle for this guy. Name calling is rude and no need for that everyone eats out of their SUV, trucks, vans etc.. Where is he from?
angel.eyes Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 Is Meth involved? What made you ask this? (I'm just curious.)
guest569 Posted July 7, 2017 Posted July 7, 2017 Congrats on getting out. He sounds awful, cheap, mean, selfish and rude. And strange.. Stay strong and know that you deserve better.
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