merry_a Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 Hello everyone! I came here to ask for your opinions. I want to date my crush again but the only problem is that he’s hooked up with me before. So I would say mystery and excitement is gone. But I think he still likes me and he still flirt with me. Any suggestion what should I do or how to increase the possibilities to be with him? Thanks.
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 Do you want to date him or hook up with him again?
stillafool Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 He's already had sex with you so it would seem if he were interested again he would ask. At least to hook up. No I don't think you should pursue him unless you just want another hook up.
Author merry_a Posted June 29, 2017 Author Posted June 29, 2017 He's already had sex with you so it would seem if he were interested again he would ask. At least to hook up. No I don't think you should pursue him unless you just want another hook up. we did not have sex,just been together several times
Author merry_a Posted June 29, 2017 Author Posted June 29, 2017 Do you want to date him or hook up with him again? Date him,but I'm not sure how to start this again. :o
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 we did not have sex,just been together several times Wait...when you say 'hooked up' you don't mean you had sex...at all? If that's the case then how can the 'mystery' be gone?
stillafool Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 A "hook up" normally means sex. Maybe you meant "hang out"?
Author merry_a Posted June 29, 2017 Author Posted June 29, 2017 Oh sorry guys,I'm wrote it wrongly. No,we did not have sex...but did making out,kissing and other usual stuff. "If that's the case then how can the 'mystery' be gone?" - I mean...I want him back,but I think because we had been together several times that he lost some interest or some "mystery" about me. But like I said,I think he still likes. So,could it be reason why he doesn't make any move again? What should i do?
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 Oh sorry guys,I'm wrote it wrongly. No,we did not have sex...but did making out,kissing and other usual stuff. "If that's the case then how can the 'mystery' be gone?" - I mean...I want him back,but I think because we had been together several times that he lost some interest or some "mystery" about me. But like I said,I think he still likes. So,could it be reason why he doesn't make any move again? What should i do? If he hasn't made a move again despite having been with you then perhaps you're reading too much into his actions. Otherwise, if you feel strongly that he's still into you then why not ask him out for drinks yourself? Why not make the first move to reconnect again? The worst he will do is decline in which case you'll know once and for all where he stands regarding you. 2
Author merry_a Posted June 29, 2017 Author Posted June 29, 2017 If he hasn't made a move again despite having been with you then perhaps you're reading too much into his actions. Otherwise, if you feel strongly that he's still into you then why not ask him out for drinks yourself? Why not make the first move to reconnect again? The worst he will do is decline in which case you'll know once and for all where he stands regarding you. I make the first move couple of time,now it's his turn.
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 I make the first move couple of time,now it's his turn. Well then there you have it. He's had his chance, you've made your moves and he STILL hasn't bothered to ask you out again. I think you're reading too much into things sweetie. I think it's best to just let things go and move on. It doesn't appear he's interested in repeating things with you. Sorry. 2
coolheadal Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 I make the first move couple of time,now it's his turn. You have to play this out and see what happens. Even if you have to make a few moves. Other than that you might have to ask him right out and say what do you want more or less of the same? See what he said? We can only go by what you tell us. To bad pictures weren't allowed here I could tell you by looking at his picture I have those abilities also.. Anyway I hope it goes well for you in any case. Sometimes it's just a spin of the bottle. You just don't know where things will land in your favor or not..
Author merry_a Posted July 1, 2017 Author Posted July 1, 2017 I wonder how do you make a guy think about you in a positive manner without making yourself look like you´re trying too hard?
ExpatInItaly Posted July 1, 2017 Posted July 1, 2017 We need more information: who is the guy in question? What is his connection to you?
Author merry_a Posted July 1, 2017 Author Posted July 1, 2017 We need more information: who is the guy in question? What is his connection to you? my ex..guy we used to have something
angel.eyes Posted July 1, 2017 Posted July 1, 2017 Your ex-not really boyfriend that you didn't really have a relationship with...just something going on in the past? You stop wasting time on a lost cause, move on, and focus on finding someone who is actually interested in dating you. 1
Gaeta Posted July 1, 2017 Posted July 1, 2017 my ex..guy we used to have something Best way to have an ex to think of you is move on and be happy and have the best life you can. If he has a look at you and you're happy and bubbly he may think *geez I miss her*. If he doesn't think about you then you didn't waste your time waiting around and hoping. 4
loverboy69 Posted July 2, 2017 Posted July 2, 2017 I wonder how do you make a guy think about you in a positive manner without making yourself look like you´re trying too hard? In the 90's I remember girls used to spray their favorite perfume on hand written letters they'd send to their BF's.
Bastile Posted July 3, 2017 Posted July 3, 2017 I wonder how do you make a guy think about you in a positive manner without making yourself look like you´re trying too hard? Not a female. But one woman that seduced me with skill, and really got inside my head, later told me of a book called "The Satanic Witch" by Anton Lavey. I'm not actually joking. ....and of course I had to read it myself then. Very crafty girl
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