uniquebk01 Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 Hi all, Having a very hard time moving on and dealing with break up. It was short very intensive relationship (talking marriage and stuff). Broke up because partner was not at all ready for a relationship though initially thought they were. We remain in contact as friends, however, now seems like I am more of a bother and I don't want that to lose that. While I understand the rational of it, I am finding it hard to focus day to day. Please advise and need support.
springy Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 Hi all, We remain in contact as friends. This is a major part of your problem. You cannot be friends with someone you have romantic interest in, especially right after a breakup. Cut all contact so you can move on.
Author uniquebk01 Posted June 29, 2017 Author Posted June 29, 2017 Initially they were reaching out and now seems more distant . I guess some level of fear keeps me reaching out but I guess that is the only option right now. It hurts more than anything to feel this,. Thank you for your reply
springy Posted June 29, 2017 Posted June 29, 2017 I am sorry I know it's hard. But it really is best when you see that they aren't interested in rekindling things.
Author uniquebk01 Posted June 29, 2017 Author Posted June 29, 2017 that's the uncertainty I guess..it does hurt..i guess now is too soon to tell they didn't explicitly say so..im confused..to be honest ..they aren't sure what they want and has no idea about the future
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