Kenthekid Posted June 28, 2017 Posted June 28, 2017 I saw a couple of these questions but didn't like how it was asked. I'm 25 years old I've been single my whole life because I am absolutely terrified of being laughed at or rejected so I've been alone for years. Depression has set in were I almost feel it's irreversible. I've got my head straight for a while now but I need real answers from women. I'm 4 inches Mabry a bit bigger fully erect. I'm fairly attractive, more so cute than handsome if that makes sense. Which actually makes thinks difficult because I've had turn down quite a few women. The worst part is they think there's something wrong with them and I hate making people feel bad about themselves but I can never tell them why, I make up some b.s. excuse like I'm busy or something, I've quite jobs left my home town and abanded everything, left my state completely to try to run from shame.i can go on and on how I completely ruined and sabatoged my life because of fear of being rejected. So I please ask to not be too mean but please be honest. Do I have a chance of having a gf, any chance at all? Is 4 1/4 inches enough to make a women happy? I need to know please help me.
SammySammy Posted June 28, 2017 Posted June 28, 2017 Yes, you can. There are millions of guys doing it. Millions. Millions of women who have happy sex lives with them and happy relationships. "You have to like the ones that like you." You're not trying to date all women. Just find one that likes you. We all get rejected. Even the largest guys get rejected. Hasn't stopped the world from having a population of seven billion people. Think about it. That's how you got here. Somebody was having sex. Relationships. Children. Passed that DNA down to you. So, it's definitely possible for you to have a woman, relationship, and a family. You - and millions of other men - wouldn't exist if it weren't.
BaileyB Posted June 28, 2017 Posted June 28, 2017 I think you are creating your own problems... Stop worrying about your penis size. A woman will be attracted to you because of who you are and how you make her feel - not your penis size. Have you found a counsellor who can help you to deal with your anxiety and fear of rejection? I'm sorry to say this, but if you expect to move through life without feeling rejection then you will be sadly disappointed. Rejection, is a part of life. Whether it happens at your job, or with friendships, or with a woman, everyone must learn to deal with rejection because it is bound to happen. I was a slow starter when it came to dating because I lacked confidence and I didn't want to be rejected by men. However, I learned with age and wisdom... You can live your life never putting yourself out there and never taking the risk... but that is not a happy life either. If you never take a risk, you may never be rejected... but, it is a lonely and sad experience to watch life pass you by... Why are you turning down women who have shown interest in getting to know you? Next time, accept the offer and go for coffee with a girl. Challenge yourself to put yourself out there - you will be amazed to learn that it's not so bad. And if the worst happens and she decides she doesn't want to see you again... You will learn that the world will not end. Have the courage and confidence to know that you are a good person and you will be ok if you get rejected... Good luck to you.
Author Kenthekid Posted June 28, 2017 Author Posted June 28, 2017 Thank you for answering. I have seen a therapist for my depression and I am a thinker, so creating my own problems is a factor in this. The biggest reason I turn women down is that usually the women that ask me out are women I work with or have known for a long time. So I built a close relationship with them already. A couple of them were I fell in love and that overwhelming feeling you get when you see them. And when it gets to that point it seems that rejection will be devastating. It's not like a random girl asked me out, it's women that had an affect on me. I think about the first girl I fell in love with. I spent time with her for over two years! I could tell you the most amazing things about her that have nothing to do with appearance but to me she was beautiful aswell. I walked away when she wanted to do something. She caught me off gaurd cause i never thought she would see me that way. I honest to god loved to just spend time with her, where I'd feel sick to my stomach if I didn't at least see her once a day. Just to talk or hang out. I was made fun of a lot but she didn't see me that way, she thought I was nice, so she talked to me and hung out with me. And I just walked away from her. It still haunts me today. There's more to her than just that but that regret is one of basis for doing what I have done to what I think I had to do to survive in society. I didn't want to write this for people to think I want pity, but since this is the first time I've actually asked a question like this I figured I could give a little context on why I turned down women because that's a good question. But even 2 answers makes me feel a better. I want to thank you women for taking the time to answer me. I didn't think anyone would even answer back. If by any chance anyone ever tells you women that you've never helped anyone, tell them you've helped some one build confidence, even just a little. Being alone has severely damaged my social skills but I can work on that since I've been very social in the past. All in all i wish i could show better gratitude to you. So thank you, I hope I never have to ask a question like this again.
d0nnivain Posted June 28, 2017 Posted June 28, 2017 Tell the therapist what you have told us. If women are approaching you but you are rejecting them, you will have a harder time finding someone to date. Stop measuring your penis. That is one of the last parts many women think about. The right women will care about you as a person. If you take care of them in other ways beyond just straight sex, by paying attention & using foreplay, everything should be fine once you address your terror. Try to remember that the BRAIN is the best sex organ.
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