Lovely222 Posted June 27, 2017 Posted June 27, 2017 Hello ive been with my boyfriend for lamost 2 years and i have a daughter he confused me coz sometimes he loves her and sometimes he hates her . He told me to get rid of her and be with him and have a family withhim i love him and care about him bit it doesnt mean i will give up my daughter just because of him . Indont know what to do anymore i know that he is not the right person an dall but you know when ou are inlove you will still take him back and become okay for 2 days and the n goes the same cycle again. I really wanna move on if we are not really meant to be i just have high hopes that we will end up together and he will accept and love my daughter but i guess it only happens in movies . I dont know what to do how to move on or atleast be strong and not take him bavk
Hurtingguy Posted June 27, 2017 Posted June 27, 2017 Hello ive been with my boyfriend for lamost 2 years and i have a daughter he confused me coz sometimes he loves her and sometimes he hates her . He told me to get rid of her and be with him and have a family withhim i love him and care about him bit it doesnt mean i will give up my daughter just because of him . Indont know what to do anymore i know that he is not the right person an dall but you know when ou are inlove you will still take him back and become okay for 2 days and the n goes the same cycle again. I really wanna move on if we are not really meant to be i just have high hopes that we will end up together and he will accept and love my daughter but i guess it only happens in movies . I dont know what to do how to move on or atleast be strong and not take him bavk This should be a no brainer for you...I have a daughter too, and if my gf said anything along the lines of me getting rid of her and start a new family with her well the only person I would get rid of is the bf I. Your case. Why would you want someone that hates your kid and wants you to give it up cmon this guy doesn't love you get rid of him asap this guys a real loser
rushed Posted June 27, 2017 Posted June 27, 2017 Any guy who would tell me to get rid of my children to be with him would get dropped so fast he wouldn't know what happened. How can you even consider this guy after he said that?
lonelyplanetmoon Posted June 28, 2017 Posted June 28, 2017 Do you two live together? Either way the best thing to do is to take a break from the relationship to get an objective view of what you want in life, without emotions clouding your thinking. It is really a lot easier to make healthy decisions for yourself when you are not stumbling from your emotions/attachments/dependency. I've been in a bad state due to a recent break up but I am finding it liberating to finally be shedding that attachment I had for my Ex.
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