steenerz Posted August 6, 2005 Posted August 6, 2005 my bf has been in CA for a week and a half and is coming home wednesdya....the first week he was there we talked a lot, like a couple hours a day, he was staying with his grandparents and was bored (assuming)....now he has met up with his brother whom he hasn't seen in over a year (studying abroad), and is now staying with his aunt/uncle/cousin's family....ever since he's been there he's hardly called...can i call him? or should i leave him alone and let him have his fun?
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 6, 2005 Posted August 6, 2005 Sure you can call him.. He is most likely a little busy catching up that's all.. Give him a call
Author steenerz Posted August 6, 2005 Author Posted August 6, 2005 when i do call tho, i think he ignores my calls, cuz it rings like once or twice then goes straight to voicemail...
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 6, 2005 Posted August 6, 2005 That normally means his phone has been powered off.. Maybe he doesn't have a charger ..I don't know what else to say...
JanieQP Posted August 6, 2005 Posted August 6, 2005 Then it's up to HIM to find another way to call you. Don't let him know this is getting to you.
Author steenerz Posted August 6, 2005 Author Posted August 6, 2005 Originally posted by JanieQP Then it's up to HIM to find another way to call you. Don't let him know this is getting to you. sorry if i sound stupid, but wut do u mean?
clynn Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 I think that you should just wait for him to come home. He probably really enjoys talking with you and it is probably difficult to have just a quick conversation with you (Cuz it sounds like the two of you talk a lot when on the phone together - how coool!!!).......and since he's visiting his brother and other family, he probably doesn't have time for a long conversation, and knowing that he'll be home now in a matter of days...........hold out.......it'll be worth the space. I know if I didn't see my brother for a whole year I'd feel like I would just want to spend tons of time with him. He knows how to get hold of you and you've already tried him. Don't take it badly, I'm sure he doesn't intend to hurt your feelings. Think about how much fun it'll be when you're together again!?!?!? All the best holding out until he gets back. I think that is best.
my_manda Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 I know the feeling of sitting around hoping that through some form of osmosis, staring, praying, etc., you can make the phone ring and connect with his inner calling child, but I think you are better off to let him call you. Giving someone space will give your relationship strength. Be consoled in the fact that he is hanging with family, which means that family matters to him (that is always a good thing), and that it is unlikely he is out flirting,partying, etc with his aunt and uncle which is nice. I think you are so in the clear on this one, and I bet he will be so excited to see you when he returns from his vacation. " I missed you " in person is better than " I miss you " on the phone anyway! Take care.
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