Thomas0695 Posted June 27, 2017 Posted June 27, 2017 Alright so a month ago my ex girlfriend broke up with me, over a disagreement we both had, and I tried to talk to her and everything a week after we broke up but she blocked me. About a week later she texted me with the excuse of can you help me with something and I was like sure. She started to ask how I've been and telling me how she been, and after that day we talk every day all day. We talk about our relationship and about the disagreement we had and how we made it a bigger deal than it need to be. She told me we both are I titled to our own opinion and it wasn't a big deal. During the time we been talking she told me that she wish I was by her, and also told em that nobody trust me like you do or cares for me or knows me like you do. Also a couple days ago she made a couple sexual jokes to me and we both laughed about it. I told her also that I'm happy we are talking but if I can't be your boyfriend then you need to find someone who can take away your loneliness. She was like I don't want another relationship. Now later this week we are meeting up I don't know what to think I don't know if she is just throwing false hope to me or not I'm still in love with her and what I can see she still cares/loves me. I don't know how to talk to her without sounding needy or desperate because I still want to be with her. It want to have something new with her instead of old. Please help any responses are greatly appreciated
smackie9 Posted June 27, 2017 Posted June 27, 2017 See what the hell she wants when you meet up.....if she can't give you a definite answer then she's wasting your time. 2
d0nnivain Posted June 27, 2017 Posted June 27, 2017 Reconciliation requires you two to talk. So do that. However, if she's not fully on board with getting back together & working to make the relationship stronger, you can go chasing after her like a dog on a leash. 1
SevenCity Posted June 27, 2017 Posted June 27, 2017 There is nothing needy about stating your demands. Quite the opposite. You are in a negotiation and come from a position of power knowing what you will or will not accept. If she does not accept your terms then you walk and never look back. Needy is if you try to convince her to agree to your terms. That said, I would not push the RL on her as it may push her away. Go for a kiss and make things sexual. If she refuses then that's a problem. 1
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