Is it too eager to go on a date 3 days in a row?

[whitewolf80]

I'm going on a date with a girl on Friday and its a long weekend where I am. If it goes well, would it be weird to suggest we hang out the whole weekend? Like go out to eat on Fri, movies Sat, walk in the park on Sun, watch Fireworks on Mon.

 

 

Too much?

 

 

Better to spread dates out like once a week in the beginning?

[CptInsano]

Quick question: How long have you been dating?

[central]

If you haven't had more than a couple of dates, you can ask her if she'd like to hang out more, or if she thinks it's too much, too soon. That shows you really like her, but don't want to smother her. That shows consideration, and leaves the decision to her. She may already have other plans anyway, of course, so don't get put off if she declines.

 

 

Bottom line, it depends on how you each feel, and the circumstances. If this is a LDR, then it would be more practical to try to spend the weekend together, than if you live close by. One woman I dated LDR, our first date (when we first met) was a full 10 days, and our second date was a full 3 weeks.

[Gaeta]

I'm going on a date with a girl on Friday and its a long weekend where I am. If it goes well, would it be weird to suggest we hang out the whole weekend? Like go out to eat on Fri, movies Sat, walk in the park on Sun, watch Fireworks on Mon.

 

 

Too much?

 

 

Better to spread dates out like once a week in the beginning?

 

That is a lot but depends how long you've been dating. Was Friday your first date? if yes then yes I think it's too much. Let the girl breath a bit between dates. Give her enough time to look forward to seeing you again.

[Popsicle]

No, it's not too much if she really likes you.

 

Why don't you just tell her your plans and let her decide.

[whitewolf80]

First date. But we've been acquaintances for a while.

[angel.eyes]

Then pace yourself. At the end of the date, IF it goes well and the connection seems there, tell her you had a great time, and would like to set up another date. If she says she would like that, ask her when she's free.

 

That will help you set the right pace.

[smackie9]

It would be her call....if she doesn't mind spending the weekend hanging out who cares what anyone else thinks....you two already know each other for some time so I can't see it being an issue especially if you two really like each other. Communication is key. Just ask her what she wants to do.

[Gaeta]

First date. But we've been acquaintances for a while.

 

Since you've known each other for a while just present her your plans (with her) for the weekend and let her give you what she can, or cannot participate in.

[kendahke]

First date. But we've been acquaintances for a while.

 

I think this would be overwhelming even if it appears that you two get along great. The romance aspect changes this dynamic.

 

You need to pace yourself otherwise, you come across as a bit too thirsty.

[Hopeful30]

I would say its too quick. Even if she's up for it, don't rush things. Leave some mystery and anticipation in there. If you're into each other, extend the foreplay