rollandDK Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 Hi, I have been dating this coworker for about two months. We know each other for two years. She broke up with her boyfriend four months ago. At the beginning she was initiative and also she is until now, kind of. We spend lot of time together, going to trips, concerts, cinema, etc. I think we act like a couple - holding hands, kissing, cuddling, touching, talking about future... Despite everything seems great, when I ask her about our relationship, she does not know. I'm for her like a better friend which is strange because of our experiences. She also says I should have to meet another girls as she may meet another guy one time. She is in early thirties, so she is thinking about family. I'm a sensitive person who wants a strong relationship and I think she too but is kind of flirty on outside. There are many more positive things she said or did but it's difficult for me to live in uncertainity. I think she is testing me but not sure. As I'm inexperienced in relationships and related physical activities, I would like to at least get some experience. I'm thinking about doing one of these things: 1. continue in this without saying anything, enjoy what is going on and see what happens, or 2. talk to her about my feelings and maybe she will reveal she was just testing me if I'm persistent Do you have any experience with such kind of woman? What would you suggest to do?
KrimzonWolf Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 do not date a coworker do not date a coworker do not date a coworker Please spare yourself the trouble. Others on here will agree. 1
TheAntiHero Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 She sounds like she still wants the other dude's D. Better look elsewhere or this doesn't end well for you. Plus, don't date coworkers, yeah.
smackie9 Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 You are a friend with benefits....she's not testing you, she's just giving you the heads up she could bail at anytime.
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