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How many Fans of the office show out there who get my reference lol? I was watching re runs and realized that while in my own office affair I thought we were like the unrequited Jim and Pam love triangle... but looking back I realize we were more like Kelly and Ryan lol

 

In my head I wanted him to be my Jim. But Jim would have never allowed five years of Pam secretly giving him blow jobs at work....

 

 

Wake up savannah.

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I love this <3

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How many Fans of the office show out there who get my reference lol? I was watching re runs and realized that while in my own office affair I thought we were like the unrequited Jim and Pam love triangle... but looking back I realize we were more like Kelly and Ryan lol

 

In my head I wanted him to be my Jim. But Jim would have never allowed five years of Pam secretly giving him blow jobs at work....

 

 

Wake up savannah.

 

I have been wondering how you are - does this mean its finally over?

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Hi Jemima! Thank you for asking.. yes it's been over for months now. He just kept pushing me away, making excuses not to see me, and more push than pull. Eventually the pain and rejection from him took its toll and I knew I just couldn't continue doing this. He would never change so I needed to change . I started educating myself about love addiction and attachment trauma. The videos on youtube by Alan Robarge, a psychotherapist, are great for people like myself struggling with love addiction. Understanding the reasons why I accepted this relationship to start with really helped me get over him.

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Hi Jemima! Thank you for asking.. yes it's been over for months now. He just kept pushing me away, making excuses not to see me, and more push than pull. Eventually the pain and rejection from him took its toll and I knew I just couldn't continue doing this. He would never change so I needed to change . I started educating myself about love addiction and attachment trauma. The videos on youtube by Alan Robarge, a psychotherapist, are great for people like myself struggling with love addiction. Understanding the reasons why I accepted this relationship to start with really helped me get over him.

 

Amazing ? Well done you have really inspired me

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Hi Jemima! Thank you for asking.. yes it's been over for months now. He just kept pushing me away, making excuses not to see me, and more push than pull. Eventually the pain and rejection from him took its toll and I knew I just couldn't continue doing this. He would never change so I needed to change . I started educating myself about love addiction and attachment trauma. The videos on youtube by Alan Robarge, a psychotherapist, are great for people like myself struggling with love addiction. Understanding the reasons why I accepted this relationship to start with really helped me get over him.

I think the fact that you researched those issues is really huge. I'm going to check out those youtube videos. Thank you for sharing!

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And so will I -thank you!

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Great news to hear it's over Savannah and long may it last.

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