Rabbitman Posted June 25, 2017 Posted June 25, 2017 A quick backstory. She is 20, and a bit shy. Anyways this guy she was seeing was also talking to other girls. They broke up. She messages me asking to take her somewhere for Valentines via a little meme card. I laughed, but asked her out in person two weeks later after she kept mentioning drinking alone. She said "Ah I figured id just drink alone". I said okay no prob! We kept talking, I sat next to her in class, then two weeks later she comes crying saying she wish she would've accepted. Told her id bring her to a Hockey game. She kept sending flirty little memes and snapchat selfies for a few weeks, during our week long break she told me she was a bad girl. I sent her a picture of a girl getting spanked, but I stopped there. I didn't keep flirting for some reason I felt like she was a bit shy and I just wanted her to come out with me. A day or two later I remember her saying "your boring" out of no where, and we kept talking. After the break we met up and she seemed a bit quiet at first. After like 15-20 min she was okay, but again she says, "you're such a bad texter". I just thought it was random since we text ALOT. After we met up to study I left and texted her making sure she was still good with the Hockey game. She said yeah sure I like hockey when is it. I know she met up with some guy she met and started talking to on that day since she told me "he had to drive her home since he left stuff at her house". I didn't say anything though. Anyways the day of the game comes around and we are sitting super close. Her foot kept bumping my leg. I touched her hand to ask her what this bump was.. ect. So during the game I randomly tried to get our pic and she wasn't too happy. She said she hates pictures. Which she does just based off her FB. Like 40 min later I put my hand around her and she goes "I dont really like it." She moved away from me a bit, and wouldn't look at me but kept talking. I apologized then next day and she goes "uh yeah it made me uncomfortable since I'm seeing someone". I mention how I thought we had kinda agreed to a date, we sorta argued a bit and I left. At first I thought she might have thought I was just messing with her so I left her a letter explaining everything (she is the nerdy type so I thought it might help explain) but it just made everything worst. She didn't really want to speak after that. Until I made a post about "Lets see how this date goes". She instantly had to ask who it was and where she was from, ect. She included me in a snap of some beer this guy bought her "When your guy gets you beer". Like she got jealous. She also sent me a snapchat of some grilled cheese she made. I noticed on our Anonymous School app she knows I look at, she posted the exact same picture with the caption "When the sex is bad but the grilled cheese keeps you going back" Like she wanted me to see it. I sent a pic of myself doing homework with a hot girl in the background and she replayed it and send all the emojiis with tongue and water ect ect. Now its been like 3 months, and she always instantly responds to my Snapchat stories or messages I send her again, but I know she still talks to this other guy. A few days ago we talked for an hour or so. She always has some smart remark to say so I said "Damn bratty girl" and she goes "Im a spoiled brat". I said see girls like this should be spanked. And she goes "I don't know what your talking about I'm such a kind person:laugh:". Then the lame letter I wrote came up and she gave a one word response so I quit messaging her. I just removed her off my Facebook without saying anything. I don't know. I am seeing another girl but I still think about this one.
coolheadal Posted June 25, 2017 Posted June 25, 2017 Why do you like to be stand-in type of guy. She's just using you for own playful self. She got a guy a already, why try to get some where you can't with her. Just move on and don't bother with her type. She not into you at all..
phineas Posted June 25, 2017 Posted June 25, 2017 (edited) she isn't shy. She's a player. Most men would of just told her "yeah, see ya" and peaced out when she said she was sorta seeing someone then ghosted her. hell, most men would of figured out she wasn't all that into them weeks earlier. you are now her plaything when she needs an ego boost. Edited June 25, 2017 by phineas 1
Hopeless.heartbroken Posted June 25, 2017 Posted June 25, 2017 She doesn't sound shy at all. She sounds very immature and not ready for a relationship. 1
smackie9 Posted June 25, 2017 Posted June 25, 2017 She's an attention W^&*%. Wow why can't you see that. She's a user.
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