xenagirl Posted June 24, 2017 Posted June 24, 2017 (edited) Hello All, I am confused about a guy's behaviour. Would like to know whether he is really into me or is this how guys behave. Some of the things I noticed were: 1) He used to look at me and then when I caught his eye he would look away quickly. This I noticed about 5 to 6 times. Although in recent times he does not do that anymore. 2) After I told him I have started to work out at a gym, he too has taken up gym membership. He feels good when I tell him how well the gym is working for him. 3) He dressing sense has improved. 4) He has not asked me out explicitly but has suggested a couple of times that we hang out with our friends 5) Maybe it is my imagination but I purposefully feel that he slows down his pace to walk and talk with me. 6) This is something which I feel is a big one - When we are in a group and even when my question is not intended for him he always tries to connect with me by answering first. Like an over enthusiastic person. Something like he always likes to draw the attention on himself. In case he misses something which I spoke he would ask others or myself to repeat what I said. I sense a desperation in him that he does not want to miss what I said 7) He opens up to me when he feels down or sad. Looks into my eyes and talks. 9) Appears to me he really enjoys my company. 10) We do catch each other's eyes all the time. I check him out too 11) He does send me funny texts messages at times.on the other side the signs which are not so okay are: 1) he is not so big on texting. Although he does reply to texts promptly but is also the one to end the conversation first 2) On a couple of occasions when we were alone he went really quiet and pulled out his phone like a barrier.Any insight would be appreciated Edited June 24, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
basil67 Posted June 24, 2017 Posted June 24, 2017 There is nothing here to indicate that he's anything more than a friendly guy. And I suspect you're over thinking number 6. Sorry.
hippychick3 Posted June 24, 2017 Posted June 24, 2017 If he was interested, he would act more interested than what you're describing. Sorry, OP. I don't see anything worth getting excited about.
smackie9 Posted June 24, 2017 Posted June 24, 2017 Listen, if you like this guy then be flirty, ask him out on a mini date to meet up a juice bar. You have to work it to increase interest and confidence in a man. It's a two way street darlin, you can't expect the guy to do all the work. 1
Author xenagirl Posted June 24, 2017 Author Posted June 24, 2017 Listen, if you like this guy then be flirty, ask him out on a mini date to meet up a juice bar. You have to work it to increase interest and confidence in a man. It's a two way street darlin, you can't expect the guy to do all the work. Hi Smackie9, Thanks for your reply. I do get what you mean. And I know it is a two way street. But was just trying to check with the experts the signs which I noticed. I always flirt and joke with him. And he reciprocate well too. Will wait to see how things unfold. The internet is full of stuff on signs a man gives when he is interested. So just thought to check it all here.
swenann991 Posted June 24, 2017 Posted June 24, 2017 He is probably just friendly guy, but why you don't just ask him if you are interested?
smackie9 Posted June 25, 2017 Posted June 25, 2017 Hi Smackie9, Thanks for your reply. I do get what you mean. And I know it is a two way street. But was just trying to check with the experts the signs which I noticed. I always flirt and joke with him. And he reciprocate well too. Will wait to see how things unfold. The internet is full of stuff on signs a man gives when he is interested. So just thought to check it all here. If we all waited around to figure out if the other is interested, then the majority of people would still be single. IMO If they interact with you, that's enough to try to get things started.
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