I like two girls. Ask them both out or pick on first?

[whitewolf80]

I really like both of them. If they both say yes, date them at the same time? Im thinking if they both like me or i like both of them its going to suck after. but i would like to get to know both of them more.

 

ive never dated multiple people at the same time. feels weird when i think about it.

 

Or ask out one and if she says yes just stick with her and see where it goes

 

be upfront about it from the get go?

Edited June 24, 2017 by whitewolf80

[SammySammy]

Date both.

 

Be honest and upfront about it. There is no need to lie.

 

At this point, you're just dating. You may never reach a point where you'll need to decide to commit to either of them. If you do reach that point with one of them, then commit to her.

 

Don't make this hard. Just let it flow naturally.

[hercules22]

better off telling them i have never dated multiple people at same time but would find it hard to date 2 different people while keeping one hidden it could be annoying setting up dates lol

[SammySammy]

better off telling them i have never dated multiple people at same time but would find it hard to date 2 different people while keeping one hidden it could be annoying setting up dates lol

 

True.

 

Lying and trying to hide it creates more problems than it solves.

 

Just say you're dating - having a social life. When it's time to commit, you'll do so. No long explanations, justifications, or disclosures needed.

 

Most of the time, she's just dating too. The chances of her having just one guy she's talking to are slim. There's no need to commit before it's time.

 

And no need to lie.

[Superchicken]

Why is there a need to say your dating others ?.

They are NOT in any relationship, NOR was any agreement made to be monogamous while dating.

 

 

You need to keep you options open, as you are NOT making sure you are the man for her, you are making sure SHE is the women for you.

 

 

No, you do not tell them anything, as its not their business to know.

On the same basis, would you also tell these girls your dating, how many ex's you have, or times you "Planted" your carrot ?.. NO, so again, until you reach the point where you are sure, date, and keep you options open.

Remember, its YOUR life you are to give to the other person, and its ONE life, so make it count, as you cannot take it back.

 

 

 

 

Ted.