francis Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 How soon into the relationship would you move to be with your boyf/girlf? I would love to hear people's experience of this...any regrets or mistakes or fantastic happy endings?
MsBlink Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 I wrote a reply without loggin' in *dud* so long-story-short... When you're financially, physically, spiritually/emotionally ready to go, go for it. BUT, do not rush it...give yourself time to answer the questions, "Do I like the area," "What will my family/friends think or say," and "What will happen if we break up?" I'm moving to be closer to my SO prayerfully the end of next year. We've been together two years, but I wanted to make sure that if we don't work out, I'm happy where I am. I refuse to pick up and move around everytime a relationship fails, ya know?!?! Think it through, discuss the topic thoroughly with your partner to see if you're on the same page, then make a logical decision. Your heart can play a part in it too, if ya want! Good luck.
sinkerswim Posted August 6, 2005 Posted August 6, 2005 Well, Im wondering the same thing.. but when me and my boyfriend discussed this realistically, we both said by next year we should make the choice who goes where. Although, I feel like I am ready now...I just want to be with him! But in the same sense, I have a wonderful family who I love so much and do stuff with, and I have a great job and friends. It IS a big decision to make. Thats why I guess we are not "rushing" anything just yet. But our goal is to live together one day! How far apart are you from your SO?
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