DacaInaru Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 ok.. how do i put this delicately.. what is it with guys and there infacutation with the size of my breast!!! I don't get it.. and i'm not all that big!! so what the heck..... if I meet a guy in person they talk to my breast... and if they see my pic in the profiles they start talking to me.. yada yada yada.. what are you hobbies, job, relationship status, size of your boobs.. or I get the damn you have big boobs.. what the hell!!! is that all men are intersted in????? I often feel like telling guys off the bat.. "i'm a 38D.. now that we've gotten that part of the conversation over with.. No I dont have one night stands..so now lets move on to the important questions grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr" I'm just sooooo frustrated with being viewed as a piece of meat!!! damn it.. lol..
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 They are looking at you as a sex object... One of the first things I learned in dating 101 was to look into a womans eyes and avoid the chest. My ex wife had 38DD and I never had any trouble looking at her eyes... "WAP" I think that guys that do that are only looking to put their co*k in between 'em and don't have any respect for what you have to say.. But hey... We are guys...
Author DacaInaru Posted August 5, 2005 Author Posted August 5, 2005 you know what the sad thing is.. that i'm the most UN sexy object out there.. I mean I don't show any cleavage, or anything.. i'm always covered up.. never in my entire life have I considered myself sexy.. i use to weigh 260lbs and lost 95 of those.. and never ever have considered myself a beauty, sex object, type of woman.. so why are guys seeing me like that.. what am i doing wrong???? sigh..
TUDOR Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Men are visual creatures much more so then a lot of women will ever understand. When you ar new to each other it is hard not to enjoy the view but it wears off and eventually your other assets and not just physical ones will get more attention. Don't think size is a factor either, the small boobies get the same attention! I still have a hard time not looking at my wife's boobs and have seen them countless times....but man they are nice to look at. My advice is don't take it so personal and let a guy get past the initial great view and get to know you and appreciate the other qualities you bring to the table. But at first glance what more do we have to go on than what we see on the outside?
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Because you are sexy... Everybody is sexy to someone.. If you were on a date with them they thought you were sexy..
Author DacaInaru Posted August 5, 2005 Author Posted August 5, 2005 ok.. if a guy wants to check out the package.. great.. but do they need to vocalize?? lol.. its like if I go on a date with a guy and say "by the way... how big is your pecker??" now that would be just rude.. or if I talk to them and stare at their crotch..lol.. you want to look fine.. think it in your head.. but don't let that be the first thing out of your mouth..lol.. thats just a turn off to me.. Last night I was talking to this guy online.. he was all into me supposedly.. went into the how big our your boobs and do you enjoy sex question.. I wouldn't reply on #1 and on #2 I told him I didn't have sex unless i was in love.. which by the way isn't completely true.. I just wont have it till i'm darn good and ready.. but.. of course.. he stopped chatting..lol.. I was trying to get rid of him anyway.. but.. dang it.. what does size matter really.. sigh..
tanbark813 Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Sooo.. you gonna post an avatar of yourself or what?
Author DacaInaru Posted August 5, 2005 Author Posted August 5, 2005 LOL.. oh god.. i'm telling you i'm not a pretty woman at all.. and i'm not skinny.. actually all my weight loss left me like a deflated balloon...LOLOL.. :-D hey at least i'm honest.
SoftDrink Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 yeah, i notice it too. it comes with the territory i guess, people are gonna look. i notice both guys and girls check out my boobs. the guys probably like them, and the girls probably call me a sl*ut. such is life.
JS17 Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Originally posted by SoftDrink yeah, i notice it too. it comes with the territory i guess, people are gonna look. i notice both guys and girls check out my boobs. the guys probably like them, and the girls probably call me a sl*ut. such is life. me too. once i had a guy come up to me and say "nice rack". i must have had such a look of shock on my face. what do you say to that?
tanbark813 Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 what do you say to that? For future reference "Thanks, big boy, would you like to touch them?" is the preferred response.
d'Arthez Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 me too. once i had a guy come up to me and say "nice rack". i must have had such a look of shock on my face. what do you say to that? "Wrong game. Next!" ?
Author DacaInaru Posted August 5, 2005 Author Posted August 5, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 For future reference "Thanks, big boy, would you like to touch them?" is the preferred response. Oh boy Tanbark.. your just tooooo much
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 6, 2005 Posted August 6, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 me too. once i had a guy come up to me and say "nice rack". i must have had such a look of shock on my face. what do you say to that? A guy I work with made this comment to a woman at work, and it was her first day!!! Oh, then we all realized he said "nice rock" referring to her engagement ring! Daca I'm sure you are very sexy and hot and just don't know it. You must feel great about yourself losing all that weight! Wow! that is awesome. Don't be self conscious of any of that skin leftover, cuz I've learned that guys (okay, not all guys) don't really care about that. If people are telling you you look hot, believe them!
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