finishedpartying Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Girl says she likes me and tells me she's all in then two days later she says she doesn't know she is confused. She's she likes me and would like to be with me but really doesn't show it (only on the phone for 5 minutes then lets me go)? Anyone have an opinion on this?
blue_eyes18 Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 Sounds like she just doesn't like you that much, atleast not right now. I mean, if I do that to a guy, it's cause I am not sure what I want to do with him or I don't want anything more from him than friendship. I just know that if I really like a guy or am into him or whatever you wanna call it, I will not say crap like that to him! I wouldn't count on her too much for anything, unless she changes and you can tell for sure that she really does like you alot!
Author finishedpartying Posted August 7, 2005 Author Posted August 7, 2005 Why did she kiss me after she said it? Do you kiss a guy u just want to be friends with
alphamale Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 with females always put 10% weight on what they say and 90% weight on what the do. their actions always give them away.....
blue_eyes18 Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 Why did she kiss you when she said it or whatever? Well, I know girls who think they are in love with like 5 guys at the same time, lol,and are very immature. And when it comes to a relationship, it wouldn't last very long with the damn sluts. lol They'd kiss/screw anyone who they thought was cute or something. I hate to say it, but it's true. Ok, I don't know her personally, but just based on the way she is treating you, saying she doesn't know, isn't sure sometimes, that right there is just saying she isn't totally 100% into you or whatever. It doesn't matter if she kisses you or not, that doesn't mean much considering the way she is doing. I know, cause there is this guy that calls me all the time and all kinds of stuff, and I know he is prolly confused. I just want to be friends with him, he is just not someone I want to be in a relationship with for certain reasons. So I haven't actually told him to quit calling or anything like that, but I do probably make him think that he might have a chance. I don't want to just tell him off, even though I know I don't want him like that. I might hang out with him if he wouldn't think I liked him, lol. That's not fair to him. So I guess I am just trying to tell you that the very single fact that she is doing or saying what you said she is doing means she doesn't really want you. Don't worry about her. That's my opinion!
blue_eyes18 Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 And do you kiss someone you just want to be friends with? Hell yeah, some folks sure do. Why? I don't know. But they do! I guess cause they are Super Slutz! lol
Author finishedpartying Posted August 7, 2005 Author Posted August 7, 2005 Like 2 weeks ago she was 100% all the way. SHe said she told me she felt about me and that I didn't call her for like three days? IS there anyway to get the fire back or just let it go.
Author finishedpartying Posted August 7, 2005 Author Posted August 7, 2005 Is there anyway to spark her interest again?
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 7, 2005 Posted August 7, 2005 Originally posted by finishedpartying Is there anyway to spark her interest again? It's not a matter of sparking her interest again.. sometimes it just doesn't work out.. Watch her actions.. If she isn't coming your way then you need to move away from her. You can't chase her at this point .. It will make the issue worse.. Find someone else to date for now
blue_eyes18 Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 Yeah, I would try not to worry about it really in truely if she is acting like that. Ok, she got upset cause you didn't call her for three days? Well, that's kinda understandable, but it doesn't mean that she should be treating you the way she is, changing her mind alot and confusing you. It just sounds like games to me, whether she means to play them or not. I don't know, I am not her, but I do know it doesn't sound too good what she is saying/doing. Just let it cool off and maybe she'll call you? If not, oh well, date someone else. Good luck!
Bethiepooh Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 I, personally, feel that she is probably not worth your time. People talk a lot. It seems to me that maybe she met someone else but is too chicken-crap to tell you? Who knows, act like it's not bothering you - that will hack her off
Author finishedpartying Posted August 8, 2005 Author Posted August 8, 2005 SO just play it cool and lay back no phone calls or anything right
blue_eyes18 Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 Gosh, you must really like her. No, I wouldn't call her. I mean, whether you end up calling or not calling, does it really matter, if she is gonna keep acting the same way? Who knows, next time you call her, she might lead you on for a little while then you'll be right back where you're at. You said she does that, right? Why don't you just plan on not calling her at all? I am sure there are other people who won't treat you like that. I don't know her, but it sounds like she is not that interested. I would really just quit giving her my attenion! It's just whatever you want. If you want someone who does stuff like that to you though, then keep calling her!
Saidar Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 Hi there, I am SO sorry for you, I had the same problem some time ago (not our conversation Blue_Eyes ). If you REALLY like her, put some effort into making her realise that. But first, make sure she is not playing you, set some traps for her, monitor her behaviour around you, and write it down, so that you can get an idea what the hell she is trying to do. Don't be stoopid, love is sometimes a game, you should not allow her to take control of you, take control of her... I know it's not easy for some guys(like me) to date easily, so if that's your problem, hang on to her until you are 100% sure that she isn't playing you a fool. Good luck
Author finishedpartying Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Saider what are some of the signs she is just playing? No, I don't date easilly. I can get all kinds of females but have difficulty finding one's I truely think are worth my time.
Saidar Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 mmm... Well, if she is not interested anymore, she won't think about you that much. So she won't call you often, she won't talk to you often. That is if she aren't too busy with other important stuff. If you see her, greet her like you always did, a kiss or whatever. If you see she gives signs of "rejection", then i's over. I don't think she will play you, 'cause she had you for 9 months.
Saidar Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 The same with me, I also don't date easily. When I find the right one, I stick to her until she tells me straight in the face to leave her alone. I don't like to play girls, I respect them alot.
Author finishedpartying Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 saider what r the signs that a girl is or is trying to play you and how do you take that away
Saidar Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Aaah **** ,sorry man!!! LOL, wrong message for you! SORRY... I thought you were someone else that I also tried to help. LOL So plz ignore the post Ok, from my experience, I would say this: If you get the faintest idea that she is confused, weird, or that she is nice to you only on certain days, then the chances are good that she uses you. If you see her again, look deep into her eyes for a long time. If she reacts "playfully", then you know she is not serious about you, but if you get the idea that she gets very serious (like her smile suddenly disappears), then I think she likes you. Everything is logical, use your brain, that's why you got one.
Author finishedpartying Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Sha looks me dead in the I and like stares at me that it sort of weirds me out. She gets mad easily is that a sign?
Saidar Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 LOL, if she can't help but to stare at you, then you are irresistable to her. BUT, she can do it purposely, like wanting to play you, or she can be serious. If she freaks you out, then I'm sure she's serious. If I like a girl, I also can't help but to stare at her. That always freaks them out. Tell me, how old are you?
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