pbass Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 Hey guys i just wanna see what the ideal girlfriend would be (personality wise). What would you want your girlfriend to do to make you fall madly in love! Like what makes guys fall in love with a girl? How much sex is enough sex to keep you wanting more And in general what things can a girl do to make her SO fall deeper in love! Thanks
Author pbass Posted June 22, 2017 Author Posted June 22, 2017 If you have any experiences about a girl you Love, what things did she do?
stillafool Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 I'm not a boy but I can tell you that what makes a man fall in love with a woman is a deep emotional connection. 2
central Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 There is no answer that fits everyone. Some men fall for passive women, some for aggressive women, for example. I am assuming you are a woman, here, so the most suitable answer - for you - will depend on the kind of man you find most appealing. Once you know that, it will be easier to find out what that kind of man wants. Even then, you can only be yourself. Yes, you can change in modest ways, but can't change who you are in hopes of attracting a man - any falseness will become apparent, and can destroy a relationship. Things like how much sex, what kinds of sex, etc., will depend on his drive and preferences. If this doesn't match with you, move on ASAP. But, the one thing that truly matters, as stillafool pointed out, is a deep emotional connection. Treat them as they wish to be treated, not how you think they should be treated, and you'll be fine. 1
Bastile Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 Learn to cook well. Or at least improve it. Don't underestimate it. Few things better in life than a sexy woman cooking something great for her guy. Get rid of male "friends". That means the guys (or even girls) that you know deep down would jump your bones the moment you gave the go ahead. Be flexible with your ideas. Don't be one of those types that wants to browbash your partner. You have your own philosophy, and so does each and every other person. When two different people combine attitudes, it creates something unique and intimate. Don't be a mooch. Let the guy think he's the man, but always offer to pay for things and don't turn up at his place empty-handed (take drink or food). That makes for a great chemistry where both are being generous in nature with each other. That's just off the top of my head 1
Ieris Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 Ideal girl is one who is comfortable in her own skin and being herself. Don't be a copy cat pretending to be someone else. 6
thefooloftheyear Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 There is no point in asking the question, as most guys have differing opinions... That said, most guys generally want the sexiest woman that fits into their desirability group...Tom Brady is with Gisele...The average Joe can't get within a mile..You get the picture.. ... But again, I agree with the last poster...Be who you are and find someone to accept you for who you are, rather than getting some general consensus and doing that... TFY 2
stillafool Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 That's the thing, you have to be yourself and hopefully who you are is what they love. Copying others actions will eventually make you fail because it is not authentic and people can tell. Also you can only put on an act for so long before your true personality surfaces. There is no right answer to your question because it depends on what the individual guy deems desirable. 1
CptInsano Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 Different guys will have different criteria. One friend of mine announced that he would marry the first Asian woman with big breasts who wanted a relationship with him, and he did. (Oddly enough they seem happy.) Some guys don't want a lot from a girlfriend, others want her to represent something. I personally am a sucker for a smart woman with a positive attitude. I also do better with extroverted women. Yes, there has to be an emotional connection, but it is possible to connect in different ways. I'm not looking for a perfect match, just somebody with the desire to make it work. So, there is no standard answer. It depends on the man you're after. 1
Gaeta Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 (edited) Hey guys i just wanna see what the ideal girlfriend would be (personality wise). What would you want your girlfriend to do to make you fall madly in love! Like what makes guys fall in love with a girl? How much sex is enough sex to keep you wanting more And in general what things can a girl do to make her SO fall deeper in love! Thanks We are all unique human beings so we all want different things in a partner. We find the partner that suits us best. I have a brother with a strong character and his wife is more the quiet soft type of personality, they complete each other. I have another brother who's soft spoken and docile and his wife is extroverted with a strong personality. Men at the base want the same as us. They want respect, consideration, love, affection, humor and so on. Men are also different than women, they fall in love differently, they view sex differently, their ego is pretty bigger than ours, their brain process information differently, etc. Hundreds of books has been written on this subject. There is nothing you can do to make a man fall in love with you other then being yourself and eventually meeting this special man that doesn't want to be away from you. How much sex is enough to keep wanting more? Never heard something so distorted. You have sex enough to feel satisfied, period. Having sex just a little to keep a man wanting more is cruel. It's a sick game any considerate gf would not play. Edited June 22, 2017 by Gaeta
carhill Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 With the disclaimer that there are billions of guys and we're all different.... Hey guys i just wanna see what the ideal girlfriend would be (personality wise). What would you want your girlfriend to do to make you fall madly in love! I'd want the sense from her that she loves genuine intimacy and affection, not just tokens and passing acts. Like what makes guys fall in love with a girl? I can usually tell from how we embrace and kiss. How much sex is enough sex to keep you wanting more Quality, not quantity. IME, being married, quality sex led to quantity and quality sex. Sex as an expression of love and intimacy. And in general what things can a girl do to make her SO fall deeper in love! My personal balance is show some emotion but keep the drama dialed back. Steady as she goes. Keep the flame burning but not like a blowtorch. Have confidence in our love. Thanks You're welcome and good luck! 2
basil67 Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 How much sex is enough sex to keep you wanting more Everyone else has addressed the other issues thoroughly. But I will touch on this: You're echoing the opinion of your silly friend from your other post. She's totally clueless and given the 200 text messages, possibly a little unhinged. Stop listening to her. Sex is NEVER to be used as a tool to manipulate another person. Period. 3
Haydn Posted June 23, 2017 Posted June 23, 2017 Opts for pints when in the pub. After, Opts for a large Doner Kebab with extra chilli sauce. (As you both stagger home) Winner. No such thing as ideal. Different for everyone. 1
GorillaTheater Posted June 23, 2017 Posted June 23, 2017 The ideal woman is smart, funny, thinks I'm funny, pretty, and (mostly)emotionally stable. And brunette. 4
morrowrd Posted June 23, 2017 Posted June 23, 2017 Having spent all my life thinking I knew what love was, what it meant, and even saying it in relationships, it wasn't until this relationship that I have experienced love in it's truest form. You wonder what a girl can do to make it happen? Absolutely nothing. The woman I'm in love with has so many little puzzle pieces - moods, behaviors, her voice, her femininity, her emotional side, nurturing nature, beauty - I can write a book about everything I love about her. Then take one of any previous relationship where I said "I love you" and really did mean it. It's like reading two different books by two different authors. Once you're in love, even if you've never experienced a loving relationship before, you'll still recognize it for what it is. There is no mistaking it. You can only be you, and someone is going to love everything about you. You can't "do" anything to make someone fall in love with you. 3
SammySammy Posted June 23, 2017 Posted June 23, 2017 The ideal girl is the best girl you can be. Don't try to be like anyone else. Even if you were successful and attracted somebody, you will eventually revert to who you really are. And lose them. So, it's best to be the best version of yourself. There are men out there who will like you for who you are. Enhance your strengths. Improve your weaknesses. Be interesting and open-minded. Always willing to grow and learn. Some guy will appreciate that. Cherish it even.
S_A Posted June 24, 2017 Posted June 24, 2017 Hey guys i just wanna see what the ideal girlfriend would be (personality wise). What would you want your girlfriend to do to make you fall madly in love! Like what makes guys fall in love with a girl? How much sex is enough sex to keep you wanting more And in general what things can a girl do to make her SO fall deeper in love! Thanks Ideal girl would be smart, honest, not judgmental, and have a nice ass.
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