grik Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 i love my ldr partner, weve been together for a year and 4 months now, she was with me just 1 month and a half ago.it was an amazing time and the hardest goodbye ever. i enjoy talking to my girlfriend everytime never get bored no matter what time of day, but lately communication via the phone has become less which was mainly after midnight when shes back from work and we text now most of the time she calls sometimes during the day but rarely and things are starting to change When i experience a sudden change or feel something is wrong i rush to think maybe she doesnt love me anymore or theres someone else and i always ask her questions and everytime she reassures me that she does love me and hasnt changed, which you can imagine gets frustrating on her side, she has proven to me her loyalty and love and i do trust her, im not proud of it but im scared she the second person I've been able to love with everything she brings that out of me. weve talked and she tells me there nothing wrong with our relationship but nolonger feels the urge to talk around that time as weve we know each other well now we talk about the same things i always want to talk to and hear from her even if its about nothing and i do not want to get that attention from anyone else except from her ats how much i love her But been thinking does communication patterns or behaviour change over time and is it normal and what is the best thing to do
preraph Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 You need to respect her wishes. Good grief. She's tired and just wants to relax when she gets home from work. She's busy and tired. She loves you but you shouldn't have to be constantly assured of it. You're acting like a toddler who won't stop tugging on his mommy's shirt. If you really love her, you'll respect her needs and not just your own, and hers are much more grounded in reality.
SammySammy Posted June 22, 2017 Posted June 22, 2017 Do you really expect a relationship to not change? It also seems that you're solely dependent upon her for your emotional needs. Why? Do you think that's fair to her?
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