mg101 Posted June 21, 2017 Posted June 21, 2017 Every month or so, send a text with a link to an article or YouTube video etc then when you reply with a generic lol or "cool", talk about how it reminded him of you, your dog or whatever. You ignore the follow up then about a month later, again. Why?? P.s. I've said we should cut communication and I've ignored actual phone calls or substantive texts. It's been a year!
Author mg101 Posted June 21, 2017 Author Posted June 21, 2017 Because they haven't been blocked yet. Blocking didn't work for me. Had to admit that months ago. It created an issue for him to address ie why am i blocked. Plus just made me anxious and he'd eventuality contact by other means. Spoofing numbers is easy now. We've actually had less contact after the blocking wasn't an issue since he no longer had an ax to grind as excuse to contact.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 21, 2017 Posted June 21, 2017 Because said ex wants his ego stroked by knowing you'll still reply. And it works. 1
dumbass2 Posted June 21, 2017 Posted June 21, 2017 Because said ex wants his ego stroked by knowing you'll still reply. And it works. This. When they get a little lonely and things may not be going well in the dating world they sometimes do this just to see if you're still around. Gives them an instant boost when they hear from you and then you feel like crap because you think it means more and are hurt when they ghost you afterwards. Block or at least never reply again. It's just a selfish act on their part. 1
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