lovesick2222 Posted June 20, 2017 Posted June 20, 2017 (edited) I have been talking to a boy for months. He started seeing another girl at the time I was seeing him so I distanced myself. We weren't in a relationship at the time and he never told me where we stood. I am still single. He'd ignore me all day to go on dates/speak to this other girl whilst leading me on. The other night I mistakenly kissed another boy for 3 seconds and he found out. He's now mad at me but he's dating another girl. He won't talk to me now and i've told him how much i care but he doesn't even care at all. If he's dating another girl why does he care so much about me kissing another boy? I still feel guilty even though he was seeing someone else behind my back. I didn't think he liked me at all. his friends are telling him i'm some malicious cheater and making me sound bad when all i've done for the last 6 months is put his best interests at heart. I'm not a bad person and i'm struggling to see that what I did was any worse than what he has done. He said he can't trust me because of this one thing yet he was most likely kissing this other girl anyway? Edited June 20, 2017 by lovesick2222
Redhead14 Posted June 20, 2017 Posted June 20, 2017 I have been talking to a boy for months. He started seeing another girl at the time I was seeing him so I distanced myself. We weren't in a relationship at the time and he never told me where we stood. I am still single. He'd ignore me all day to go on dates/speak to this other girl whilst leading me on. The other night I mistakenly kissed another boy for 3 seconds and he found out. He's now mad at me but he's dating another girl. He won't talk to me now and i've told him how much i care but he doesn't even care at all. If he's dating another girl why does he care so much about me kissing another boy? I still feel guilty even though he was seeing someone else behind my back. I didn't think he liked me at all. You two were not in a relationship. He can see/speak to whomever he wishes and you can kiss and talk to anyone you want to. PERIOD. He has no right to be upset with you and you should tell him that if he says anything again. If you've been intimate in the past with him, I'd just block him because, if nothing else, he's trying to control you and keep you for back up booty. The other night I mistakenly kissed another boy for 3 seconds -- I don't know how any one kisses someone by mistake . . . but so fr*ggin what? He needs to get over it.
Gaeta Posted June 20, 2017 Posted June 20, 2017 Two words: Block and delete A man can be jealous you kissed someone else all the while not wanting to be your boyfriend. It's just a case of I don't want you but don't want anyone else to have you. He just wants to be in control even when it's not his business. Stop talking to him, block and delete.
Redhead14 Posted June 20, 2017 Posted June 20, 2017 why does he care so much about me kissing another boy? -- And, if you're thinking that deep down he really wants you but can't say it, etc., put that right out of your head right now. That's not the case. 1
Zahara Posted June 20, 2017 Posted June 20, 2017 He said he can't trust me because of this one thing yet he was most likely kissing this other girl anyway? It's just his freaking ego. He doesn't like the fact that you're paying attention to another guy when he should have it all, even when he doesn't want it. You're not a bad person. You're just allowing jerks (his friends as well) to make you feel bad for no reason at all. You didn't do anything wrong. And the reason he said the bold was to make you question yourself and let it eat at you. It's just his immature way of playing head games with you. Try to rise above this.
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