HAZE46 Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Hey I know this may sound like a really trivial matter but I was just looking for someone elses opinion? I live with my boyfriend of 2 years in a different city to where I grew up so I dont have many friends close by but recently I bought I new dress, which I absolutly fell in love with you one of them you just had to have it buys? I thought I looked really good in it and that it was really flattering on. So when I took it home I couldnt wait to show it off to my boyfriend. The dress this floor lenght but quite tight up top around the bust, when I showed my partner he was less than impressed he said I looked like a tramp and it was really trashy and worse of all that I didnt have the figure to carry it off. I dont want to sound bad but I am only a size 8. Does anyone else think that that is a horrid thing to say? It amount other things is really starting to make me doubt our future together. I would have though that any man with a goodlooking girlfriend would be proud to show her off but he said it make it feel uncomfortable to go out with me but I wasnt to go out on my own. I just wondered why he cant appreciate what he has got? I know its pretty petty but I feel its like the icing on the cake or do you think Im being really silly (Everyone likes to feel sexy as some point good ego boost)
Outcast Posted August 5, 2005 Posted August 5, 2005 Well, it's possible you have terrible taste and that the dress does look bad on you. It's also possible he has terrible taste and thinks you look trampy when other people wouldn't. If you don't have other friends to ask, it's hard to tell who's right here but the people who sold you the dress might have told you what they thought would sell you the dress. Why not take the dress back, take him shopping with you, and find one you both think looks great?
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