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Hey

 

Hope this is in the right place.

 

Right so I left my job today via text today. The reason being I can't face the fall out from handing in my notice. I'll be leaving the country for a while anyways.

 

The job become too much to handle mainly due to my bosses daughter wanting to be in an relationship with me when i explicitly said I don't want anything to do with her. Her trying to claim ownership on me. Many other psychological games.

 

A month ago a new girl started at work. We got along really well. She laughed at all my terrible jokes, smiled a lot and talked sense etc etc. As you can imagine my bosses daughter was not very happy with this and sent several texts and made lots comments warning me what i was doing was wrong. This was the final straw I knew I had to go

 

anyways before I left I was meant to tell the new girl that i was leaving and that we should keep in touch by giving her my number. But I never got the chance to tell her. Our shifts didn't match. :(

She is only in the job till august before leaving to go someplace else well another country

 

My options now are limited:

 

1. Just forget about her and move on with my life

 

2. add her on Skype and message her. But risk her telling my now ex employer that I contacted her. Should I even care if she does. I'll be hated anyways because of the way I'm leaving.

 

3. ????????

 

THANKS :p:cool:

Edited by happynomad
Posted

You really like the girl, maybe she really likes you. Send her a Skype invite and find out. Never mind what the ex-employer thinks of you - they have a creepy daughter who scares their employees away by text-stalking them.

Posted

Message her!! It's an opportunity that could lead to who knows what. I met my partner on a year and a half on Omeagle lol. Anything is possible :)

Posted

So you've already left your job, and you want to contact a girl that you like but are worried that the ex-boss's daughter might find out?

 

And you care about that why again?

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Right so I left my job today via text today.

...:confused:

 

Seriously? You quit your job by text!

 

No don't bother. I would not want to hear (or date) a guy that quits his job by text.

 

 

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...:confused:

 

Seriously? You quit your job by text!

 

No don't bother. I would not want to hear (or date) a guy that quits his job by text.

 

 

 

And I would not want to hear (or date) a girl as judgemental as you.

He obviously wasn't enjoying the job so he quit, how he quit isn't relevant and he wasn't asking for feedback on his exit strategies.

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OP, what came of this in the end?

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