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Am I doing the right thing?


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I am back again...

 

I am I doing the right thing?

 

Meeting a girl tomz (Beach evening date as been so hot here in the U.K.) picking her up...then going for ice cream/arcades she is 26 seen her FB & she seen mine....

 

She has M.E

 

So around Christmas time a girl asked her uncle (Work colleague of mine) if he knew anyone who is single he recommend me....

 

Started talking in Jan for a few months tried to get her on a date she wasn't ready (I told her politely to not message me until she has sorted her stuff out & she is ready for me to take her out)

 

she then messaged 2 months later asking if I am still single & wanna meet up as friends first...

 

Background she was with someone 7 years (Moved in with him last year) he cheated on her last year.... tried to sell house) (Didn't so he paying her off & she moving out august) used to dance with him was 3rd best in country... only speaks to him about house stuff that's it

 

She told me she not ready for relationship till end of year and wanna meet up as friends first but like my pictures & looking forward to meeting me... but said she is fine if I find someone else before I am ready and Dosnt wanna lead me on or mess me about etc

 

So am I making a bad move? Or should I be careful she been through a tough time etc

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Update went on date both had a good time....

 

She told me, I don't know what to do with my life as nearly had it all kids/husband so not ready to date but have had a nice & thx you for taking me out etc and would like to see you again as friends maybe dating if I am ready to get to know you better

 

She gone bit cold after date so gonna not message her for a few days and see if she messages me etc...

 

If not will move on' if she asks for date when she is ready (If am still single I might consider it)

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