shahjskalio Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 We've been on a few dates and even slept together but he wants to be friends because you doesn't want expectations and commitment, I told him I don't want to be his friend. He keeps texting me and asking why I can't be his friend The thing is I have feelings for him and I can't be friends with him. I like him but I'm worried I'll just get hurt if we're "friends". Should I just let him go?
stillafool Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 We've been on a few dates and even slept together but he wants to be friends because you doesn't want expectations and commitment, I told him I don't want to be his friend. He keeps texting me and asking why I can't be his friend The thing is I have feelings for him and I can't be friends with him. I like him but I'm worried I'll just get hurt if we're "friends". Should I just let him go? Tell him the bolded part above and don't see him again. You are right you will get hurt. He wants you to be a FWB. 3
Author shahjskalio Posted June 19, 2017 Author Posted June 19, 2017 Tell him the bolded part above and don't see him again. You are right you will get hurt. He wants you to be a FWB. Thank you for your advice!! I will text him that! 1
Author shahjskalio Posted June 26, 2017 Author Posted June 26, 2017 I told him I can't be his friend. Then he told me he can't be in a relationship and can't be a lover and that he's emotionally unstable and not 100% available. But still kept convincing me to be his friend and telling me he likes me and I kept saying no so then he finally agreed. I feel so sad now. I did like him, we had a connection. But I can't be just his friend I want something more something emotional and real:( 2
PegNosePete Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 Don't reply to him any more. He may text a few times and may get more and more desperate, even abusive, but if you just keep ignoring him he will go away. Blocking his number will certainly help. 2
basil67 Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 You did the right thing. It may not seem like it now, but you'll forget him soon enough. 1
coolheadal Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 We've been on a few dates and even slept together but he wants to be friends because you doesn't want expectations and commitment, I told him I don't want to be his friend. He keeps texting me and asking why I can't be his friend The thing is I have feelings for him and I can't be friends with him. I like him but I'm worried I'll just get hurt if we're "friends". Should I just let him go? If he can't give you exclusive with you and him, then you need to move on. He told you he didn't want that so that means he playing the field of love with other women. Don't drop those panties yet.. Guy like this to active in sex one wrong move and STDs. Very serious protection is not 100% effective. I seen a lot of naughtiness out there. Find the right guy who will give you want you want a commitment in a serious relationship and don't give him what he wants so fast sex. Don't you want to be love and respected.. I rather the love first sex later.. Serious relationship.. He's not ready to give you more he wants to fish in the sea of sex. So he makes you his friend only.. You don't not go from making love to just being a friend plus I wouldn't trust this guy for one minute. Word of advise just be careful who you're with today! 2
Maggie4 Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 If he bothers you again, just tell him that you don't want to be friends with somebody who is emotionally unstable. Don't worry. Your feelings for him will go away soon. You slept with him, that's why you developed feeling. 1
kendahke Posted June 26, 2017 Posted June 26, 2017 We've been on a few dates and even slept together but he wants to be friends because you doesn't want expectations and commitment, I told him I don't want to be his friend. He keeps texting me and asking why I can't be his friend The thing is I have feelings for him and I can't be friends with him. I like him but I'm worried I'll just get hurt if we're "friends". Should I just let him go? Yes. And tell him exactly what you said above: " The thing is I have feelings for him and I can't be friends with him. I like him but I'm worried I'll just get hurt if we're "friends". " Then block him and move on. Never discount yourself and what you want out of a relationship in order to keep someone who doesn't want what you want. 1
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