Feisty Girl

[zed_n]

Hi

 

First time poster just wanted a second view point on my situation. So i work in a busy environment have a lot of people coming in all the time. So there is this one girl that comes on my counter quite often. Every time i talk to her she has a very feisty attitude always quite reserved. made her laugh a couple of times. she says hello and stuff all the time. Think i might have messed up when one of my colleagues served her and told me she is from Greece which i bought up at a later date. When i bought it up i thought it would be a good conversation starter instead she out right calls me a stalker (which i don't understand she comes to my work place ). Shes going on holiday soon in her own for awhile. now my question is how do you build a foundation with a reserved girl? complimenting her i don't even know if she will take it the wrong way.

 

Thanks You

[smackie9]

I believe she has already formed an opinion, and I wouldn't recommend trying to get anything started with her if she isn't receptive in a positive manner so far. She could have you fired if she doesn't like your advances.

 

As for the stalking, you are not physically stalking her, but you have personal info she never revealed to you, so she is going to be creeped out. When you get info about someone, you should mention the source like "So Mike mentioned to me that you said you were from Greece..."

[coolheadal]

Yes I have to agree, she call you a STALKER when they that word all you can do is drop the entire idea.

[trailwolf]

i agree with smackie9 on this one , i would be courteous an nice but only in a business manner , other than this i would leave her alone and not say anything else to her !

[Erik30]

Seems like an overreaction, she could've just asked how you knew that. Oh well, would you really want a girl who acts like that? Move on to the next one, this is probably done.

[rushed]

Was she smiling and laughing (good sign) or did she look serious/angry/creeped out (bad sign) when she called you a stalker?