Aquam Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 I met a girl (27) around 2 months ago and were meeting twice a week. We got on really well and it was good. It took a little while to become more flirty and have out first kiss but when we did it was good. Things progressed and we stayed round each others houses and met some of each others friends. Suddenly, I got cold feet. Things had moved pretty quick and I started to think whether I wanted this to become really serious. I've also had a lot on at work and things were getting a bit much. We met for a drink and suddenly I didn't feel the chemistry. She picked up on this and said she feels like im not that into her (which made me have more doubts). Anyway, I arranged to meet again the next day, and she was cold. Really cold. We had an awkward date, both left early and just had a peck goodbye. The next day she text saying how uncomfortable she found it. And I can see why. The last week I havent been myself and this has obviously made it feel like I wasnt into her (or was an absolute weirdo). But now we have agreed to stop seeing each other, I like her more and have been missing her to the point which I haven't been able to concentrate on anything else. I'm just not sure what to do. Is it over and I have to move on? or could I text her and say I messed up and want to try again (im worried the damage is already done) any help would be appreciated.
Knix Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 I don't want to say it's impossible.. it's just going to be a lot harder. Women have egos too, and when you had cold feet you probably made her feel unwanted. Really take a moment to decide if this is the right move for you so you don't end up doing it again, and then take her out on a really nice date-- explain why you were acting the way you were acting. She's afraid that you weren't into her anymore or that there was someone else. If you let her know that you guys were going fast and you got cold feet, she'll understand more I think. And when I say take her out on a nice date, I mean a NICE DATE! Show her you really want her in your life: flowers? nice dinner where you can talk? a special activity? Good luck! Keep me posted! 1
Author Aquam Posted June 19, 2017 Author Posted June 19, 2017 Thanks Knix. We haven't spoke for a few days so I'm going to message her tomorrow and ask how everything is and if she would let me take her out and explain how I'm feeling. I have a terrible feeling she will politely decline but it's worth a go.
Knix Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 If she really likes you, a few days won't have made a big difference. If she declines she may have her own stuff going on, but stay positive 1
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