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I tried eharmony and met a few people in person through it, but never more than 1 or 2 dates. I tried a speed dating event (I posted about before) and most of the people were much older and I didn't meet anyone.

 

With match.com and Christianmingle and see about 30 profiles on each that look like possibilities near me. Are there new sites that are better?

 

I'm looking for white woman, late 20's or 30's that doesn't smoke or have tattoos.

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Check out Bumble. It's free and less effort. I've had the same or better success on it as opposed to a paid site like Eharmony.

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I've had success on both Bumble and OkCupid, though it's been a while since I've been active on either of those sites. Met some really great guys on both!

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I've had success on both Bumble and OkCupid, though it's been a while since I've been active on either of those sites. Met some really great guys on both!

 

Thanks! Any tips? Maybe I was doing something wrong on eharmony that I can fix here

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I have found a lot of the same people on multiple sites in the area and I didn't find any different in seriousness between free and paid so I usually just stick to OKC since it's free and the questions are good at figuring out whether someone matches.

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I have found a lot of the same people on multiple sites in the area and I didn't find any different in seriousness between free and paid so I usually just stick to OKC since it's free and the questions are good at figuring out whether someone matches.

 

Agreed. The "seriousness" of someone has nothing to do with the site though the more hookup prone tend not to pay for the service.

 

I was more impressed with the women on bumble as opposed to OkCupid but I really didn't do the questions so that may be a factor.

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Thanks! Any tips? Maybe I was doing something wrong on eharmony that I can fix here

 

They had a free weekend even on that eharmony I gave it shot and i removed the account back to OKC I go but I not on OKC now deleted the account. I doing other things but So you don't want a woman with tattoos and doesn't smoke. What about kids? Remember your profile is your advert. You got to make yourself stand out from the rest.

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Ive been on several and all of them are hit and miss. If you post too many requirements you definitely limit your options. OkC was ok for me but in my area the selection was weak.

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They had a free weekend even on that eharmony I gave it shot and i removed the account back to OKC I go but I not on OKC now deleted the account. I doing other things but So you don't want a woman with tattoos and doesn't smoke. What about kids? Remember your profile is your advert. You got to make yourself stand out from the rest.

 

Basically my filter is white, no tattoos, doesn't smoke, never married and no kids. I'm also considering political since the last woman I was interested in got upset over my politics since we were polar opposite even though I was very respectful and tried to learn from her. That shouldn't be too hard to find. Right?

 

How should I stand out?

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