travelgirl3 Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 So, I met a guy through a dating app who works for the same company as me but in a different department. We went out last Tuesday and after the date he hugged me and told me to let him know if I wanted to hang out again. The next morning he messaged me through the work messaging system. He then messaged me each day after. I asked him later in the day on Thursday if he wanted to go see a movie and he didn't reply because he was in a meeting. The next morning he said he was really sorry for not replying but he didn't mention anything about the movie. Later in the day on Friday he said his roommates and himself were having a party. Friday night he texted me and I asked how the party was going. He said he knew it was late but I was welcome to come to the party. I told him I wanted to but I couldn't because I had to wake up early. I then texted back asking if he was free on Saturday. He never responded to my text. Does it seem like he's just stringing me along?
clia Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 Your first date with him was less than a week ago, and you've already asked him out twice. I think you need to back off. It's hard to say whether he is stringing you along, but he doesn't seem that anxious to see you again, other than in the context of a last minute booty call. My advice is to stop initiating and see what he does.
PegNosePete Posted June 19, 2017 Posted June 19, 2017 he doesn't seem that anxious to see you again, other than in the context of a last minute booty call. Exactly. I think he's just not that into you. Otherwise he would put in some effort. At the moment he's putting in zero.
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