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The story goes like this. I was in the military and it took huge toll on my ex. Beforehand, our relationship was perfect and we talked about kids and wedding etc. A military relationship strained her more than expected. I come back and she decides to break it off one day after my return. She said that I deserved better and didn't want to drag me on because it wasn't the same. She blocked all me and all my friends on social media an hour later because she said it's too hard. I immediately go no contact with no begging or harassing her after our heartfelt amicable breakup of a 3 year relationship. It's been one month since the break up. Lately she unblocked my best friends on snapchat and has been posting more than usual and showing how much fun she's having(still blocked on snapchat), but she unblocked me and my friends on all other forms of social media. Just as soon as I removed her pictures and was moving on, I see these little hints. What do you think?

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I think you are reading WAY too much into it.

 

So she unblocked you and your friends. Big deal? Did she tell you that she is missing you and wants to try again? If not,t hen those "little hunts" mean nothing.

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She broke up with you one day after your return?

 

Be glad you didn't marry her. I mean, I'd imagine it'd be emotional returning from the Military and serving your country, then seeing your family again after what I'd imagine would be some time.

 

As for the little hints... she may be trying to play a game. Try to make you chase because you didn't. Unfortunately it's working.

 

Best to keep it to yourself, and not act on it. Of course we all question what the actions of our exes are. But a majority of the time we're wrong.

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Whenever someone tells you you deserve better, believe them. More than likely she was cheating on you while you were away and her heart was captured by another.

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