Weird

[Flee]

Hey guys, this is my first thread here. To start off I would like to explain the situation that I'm in. I found out a week ago the girl I liked had feeling for me also. I proceeded to show more positive body language, talk with the girl one on one and text her all the time. Her friends told me she really liked me. Recently we hung out outside of school and talked. We aren't dating but I held her hand for a little as we walked around . After we got back I kissed her for the first time. It went well. The next day we were talking over text and she said she didn't want to take things to to fast and rush into it. What does this mean? And she also doesn't send hearts as much as she used to if that makes any difference. Explain what's happening? Thanks

[coolheadal]

Sounds like she's slowly loosing interest in you. It does happen. Or she might not be ready for anything to serious. You my be pushing things that way. I am like you in a way but some girls just not into true blue relationship so the easy way to say slow down don't rush it...

[Gr8fuln2020]

Hey guys, this is my first thread here. To start off I would like to explain the situation that I'm in. I found out a week ago the girl I liked had feeling for me also. I proceeded to show more positive body language, talk with the girl one on one and text her all the time. Her friends told me she really liked me. Recently we hung out outside of school and talked. We aren't dating but I held her hand for a little as we walked around . After we got back I kissed her for the first time. It went well. The next day we were talking over text and she said she didn't want to take things to to fast and rush into it. What does this mean? And she also doesn't send hearts as much as she used to if that makes any difference. Explain what's happening? Thanks

 

No one knows for certainty, but that kiss may not have been as great as you think it was. Also, you two sound very young and her wanting to slow down or not rush could be her way of postponing what all guys want...sex. In the end, you simply need to continue communication, meets and see how she responds. If her enthusiasm for you dramatically declines, she is losing interest.

[smackie9]

She lost interest. I'm speaking from experience when I say this.....when I admired a guy from afar, I use my imagination as to what he would be like personality wise....but once I spent time with him, I realize he was nothing I had imagined and the attraction was gone in an instant *poof*

 

It happens.......back off, be distant/aloof, be cool, talk to other girls.

[healing light]

I don't necessarily think she lost interest, but I think it's possible she wants to take things slower physically. Either that or the kiss was not as great for her as it was for you.