smee707 Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 I was dating a girl and we'd be seeing each quite a lot, maybe 8 dates or so. Things were pretty good and we shared common interests. But for some reason it wasn't very romantic. We both needed a few drinks to get anything started and most dates (if we weren't drunk) ended in just a peck goodbye. Now, understandably, she doesn't really want to take things forward because she said the last few dates have been awkward. I do understand why, and at first I thought it was best because things were quite uncomfortable. But I do really like her, and I know that it's mostly my fault for having doubts and so not being very forward. Do I text her and ask if we can meet? Or do you think things were right anyway and I'm best to leave it?
preraph Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 I mean, you can ask her again but it does sound like it's been awkward so not sure if she still wants to try. Anything you do now trying to act forward will seem forced and deliberate. Not sure why if you have common interests things ares still so tense after 8 dates. Maybe it is just bad chemistry.
Author smee707 Posted June 18, 2017 Author Posted June 18, 2017 I don't know why it's awkward. I have a lot going on with work and family. And I just have been way too laid back with it all. I'm not usually shy but I have been around her and she isn't the type of person to make the first move. But at first that wasn't a problem. It's only been recently that because she felt like I didn't like her, our dates have gone a bit stale and we act more like friends. I want to ask her out again, to try and see if we can have chemistry again. But I'm worried maybe it'll be a waste of time and we're just not compatible
Recommended Posts