Jake0711 Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. She has treated me wrongly in the past multiple times (dont want to type them, but about 3 times were messed up, not cheating) She has also lied about where she was once just recently (went out with her sister and told me she was home) i forgave her. Since then i have felt myself not even having any interest in hanging out with her, only feeling like i need to hang out with her because she is my girlfriend. Ideas for new things to do have went out my head because I no longer care to try anything new with her.. She is a sweetheart and cares about me so much, as do i her. My question is, should i try to rekindle the flame, or should I move on and tell her its over? any advice is appreciated. thanks
babysacay Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 Losing "the spark" is something that normally happens in long-term relationships. Love ebbs and flows when people have been together long enough. That being said though, it sounds like there have been a few red flags that might indicate additional trouble in the future if nothing changes. 2
GOB Posted June 18, 2017 Posted June 18, 2017 You want to end it, that's why you're posting on here, understand relationships take work and you aren't constantly going to be madly in love with her, people aren't constantly happy, outgoing and fun. That being said, when you end it, make sure you're prepared for her questions, give her a clear and good explanation so that she gets the closure she deserves. 2
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